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joey tan
If a girl ‘s been rejected many times by different men due to lack of physical attraction, shld she goes for plastic surgery or see a Therapist?
Better off single
She should stop chasing shallow men and get a hobby. Like giving advice on relationship forums.
Raven
Why would you want to change your body for a man?
Just a pretty face
To keep him satisfied and get his approval. Why does anyone care about appearance? Validation.
Summers
Start dating different men who will appreciate your body and you for you. dont change for a man. there are plenty of men who arent caught up in all that stuff. have confidence in yourself and be the best you can be, you dont need plastic surgery to become the best you can be. eat healthy, love your life, have friends, have love for this world. men will be attracted to you.
anon
Uh, somewhere a man loves your body. Hold out for him. I have been rejected many times for my body. My current FWB LOVES my body and lets just say he makes the men who rejected me look pathetic. Most of us have a type that we are attracted to, so its kind of how the world works.
Please do not go change your body for anyone but yourself.
Warasen
What do you perceive that is a flaw and can be improved with cosmetic surgery?
Joey
Just feel that a man will always consider other girls but will never see me as a potential romantic partner at first sight
I don’t find the girls they eventually seriously dated as attractive whatsoever but they managed to get these guys’ attention and attraction. Im serious about dating, not looking for flings , fwb, or ons.
Whereas for me, some of these guys either write me off completely at first sight or used me as a timefiller, stopgap girl until they find the ideal girl. I tried to develop my personality…learnt to be more interesting in my conversation and interests but still always get dismissed quickly. They are just not keen or serious to know me better
Lane
I know this may not seem helpful but I absolutely believe there is *a person* for each of us, sometimes its quick and sometimes it takes longer to find each other. Never change for a man, always strive for the one who loves you the way you are and for who you are!
Holly Biscuit
Please don’t get plastic surgery just because you’ve had a bad run of luck with dating. Any man who would pick on your physical attractiveness while breaking up with you is toxic and not worth your time. Maybe take some time off from dating and focus on hobbies, work, friends and family? It sounds trite, but I had to take some time to recalibrate my picker for similar reasons, and I’ve been much happier ever since.
Holly Biscuit
But also, yes, see a therapist! You really can’t go wrong with therapy. Find a body-positive counselor in your area and use your time with her/him to build up your self-worth. You deserve it.
Vera
First of all, “Good looks” according to society don’t equate to success in dating . In fact , I would argue that the stereotypical gorgeous girl is more likely to meet and stay with the wrong men , men who only care about a woman’s exterior.
Second of all , beauty is definitely in the eyes of the beholder and is not just about the external appearance but in the way a woman carries herself and all the good stuff that comes with the personality .Ames
They actually tell you they’re not attracted to you? Or you perceive it? That’s awfully rude on their part…I don’t mean to sound shallow but do you exercise? Eat well? Are not too overweight? Sometimes exercising and eating healthy can make you feel good about yourself. Being skinny isn’t important but being overweight isn’t necessarily healthy. And it is attractive to be in shape. Also, it helps with confidence…when you feel good, you are naturally more confident. It also helps with energy levels, etc.
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