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Rachel
If a guy ‘likes’ your picture on match, is that a hint I should talk to him or are they just liking my picture and that’s it?
Same with the ‘they’re interested’ section. They say they are interested, but do you wink or message them?
I’ve been on like on and off for a while and I just don’t know what to do with this information.
Any advice is appreciated.
Thank you!Khadija
I kept it simple with match if I liked a profile I wrote to them.
If they liked me they either initiated writing a message or wrote me back.
The likes and he’s interested tend to just hog up space on your page.kaye
To me the “he’s interested” means nothing. Those are from the daily matches and they have to say whether or not they’re interested before they can see the next daily match. If someone likes my picture and I read their profile and I’m interested then I would just usually shoot them a quick email thanking them for the picture like and saying something about one of their pictures or something they wrote in their profile that I liked. I would say 99% of the guys who liked my pictures responded back to an email I sent thanking them and it went from there. Hope that helps!!
L
If a guy likes your photo and you are attacted to his as well I would “like” his photo as well or send a wink. I think guys are testing the waters sometimes to see if your interested or if u will respond.
As for the interested page not much you can do unless he sends an email to you.
IMO just play around with it…don’t put so much thought into it..if you see a guy you like and he shows interest whether it be a wink/like or whatever send a simple wink or short message.
If a guy really wants to get to know u he will email or respond.
Everyone has different opinions on responding to messages/winks etc. but at the end of the day what do you have to lose whatever makes u comfortable? There are so many people on these sites not everyone reacts the same to a wink/email!
JennaMichelle
I don’t take match.com seriously. I cancelled my account after the free trial. I found there were more desperate single guys wanted a “hook up”. Ugh.
Rose
If a guy doesn’t like me enough to send an actual email I don’t bother with him. He’s just not that interested.
Do you think if a guy is extremely interested in a girl, would he lose the chance to talk to her by just liking her pic?
OK, put yourself in his shoes. If you were a guy and really liked a girl, would you just like her pic or would you try your best and talk to her???
Jenny
If someone “likes” me, I’ll check out their profile if their picture intrigues me and I’ll “like” them back if if their profile intrigues me… I do the same with “he’s interested”. I never e-mail first even if he has liked me and I liked him back, I don’t respond to all e-mails I receive. All my match guys were in “relationship” mode rather than “hook up” but I guess it’s just hit or miss. May be an age range thing *my interest is in men 30-38 but good luck! Many fish out there… Enjoy the experience :)
Rachel
Thank you for all your advice ladies. Much appreciated!
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