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Melissa
I met a guy on a dating site. We have clicked really well, he sent photos and even mentioned he was guilty of theft. He gets early parole in July & wants to meet me.
He sounds really genuine about rehabilitating himself (counseling specifically).
Should I continue with this? People can learn from their mistakes, right?
RavenOh Honey, no…
KhadijaGirl no!
He’s looking for a place to stay when he gets out.The fact that you are even considering it means you need to rethink your standards.
anonWe do not put effort into men we have not met in person.
File him away if you wish and tell him to contact you when he is out of jail and settled in to his new life.
kayeThis has to be a joke, right? Do prisoners really have access to the internet and dating websites?
And if it’s not a joke, why can’t you go meet him before he’s paroled in July? Certainly if he has access to dating sites he can have visitors. I don’t understand women who have relationships over the internet when they haven’t even met in person. And a paroled felon sounds like a GREAT choice! Why not asked him if he used a weapon during the theft?
KathyI hope this is a fake post.. No! Don’t meet a man you met in jail!
Could be, the first time he came to your house all of your jewelry and other stuff might go missing.. Better people out there.. You can’t trust a man like this!!
AndersonCall me insensitive but I got a kick/laugh from just the title itself. Thanks
YOLOwell, you’ve come this far. Why not see where it leads?
I believe people can learn from their mistakes and change for the better. It takes years though. Some people are really good liars and will manipulate until they feel like they’ve got you where they want you. He’s a thief so he probably may just take your heart, mind, soul…possibly your life and then where will you be? What do you have to lose?
Just be careful, stay guarded, listen to your intuition, and take it very slow. Lock your valuables in a safe place.
If you decide not to, maybe take a really deep look within yourself because maybe you deserve better.
PearlHow this even happen!?
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