Met love of my life in first date but got blocked

Sophia. Thanks for reply. I am trying very hard but we matched in some of the most sensitive things I never could I would ever find. She is my perfect woman with whom I feel confident that I can live life long without getting bored ever. She would be the most friendly understanding love of my life. I just can not imagine to give up and move on. I now even lost interest in other 10 woman I was messaging before her. All I want is her. Please help me how to let her know how much I feel about her. She really doesn’t know any of these things I am feeling about her. Maybe she will love me more than I do once she knows what truly I feel for her. If there is any woman who can understand my feelings, kindly help me understand if I must try something.

Thank you Rox. Yeah I never expected that she will be scared because she knew all about me, visited my home, knows my workplace. I am actually a senior engineer at amazon. I never expected she will block me if I did that. Even her workplace people treated me and spoke to me well understanding I am trying something to convince or apologize to my lady. They accepted with a smile. She blocked me after an hour. I hope she has taken her flowers and chocolates next day…. I did one more crazy thing that I bought diamond earrings which she mentioned that she wanted to buy soon when we were discussing about her ears. The order is on its way to her workplace again. It includes a message that I truly apologize for upsetting her and I will not disturb her again until she remembers me…. I am little worried how she will react..

I’m calling fake post on this. No one can be this detached from reality.

Thanks for the replies and feedback about me. This is my true story currently happening in my life. Not a fake post. I really regret if I did something wrong in my date. Just trying very hard to move on and not think about her. But I am finding no interest in any other woman. I was all fine until she entered my life and stirred up all the feelings. I see many posts where even woman are suffering too after first date silence. It’s so painful. I will never remain the same person again without her. At least she could have given just one reply to understand me and help me move on as she is more mature and older than me.

I regret if I scared her or hurt her unintentionally. I am a same working professional as she is. I will never ever do that mistake again. But I don’t want new chances with some other woman. All I want is a second chance with her. I just miss her so much. I hope she misses me too like she missed me last Friday night. Never ever expected I will fall in love so deeply after many years.

Thank you Lane. One more crazy thing from me is my order of her diamond earrings is on it’s way to her workplace with a delivery on this Wednesday. Please let me know if I should stop it or will she upset even more or how a woman would react in this situation when someone remembers what she said on first date and sends it as a gift. Kindly advice.

Yes! Absolutely stop it! Seriously, you have to know, deep down, this was way too much to soon.

I’m not sure if this is actually a serious post or not but for the love of everything holy LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONE!!!!!

I have been the victim of a stalker and that is exactly what you are doing to this woman. It doesn’t matter if her workplace people are being nice to you or not. She made it clear that she was not into you when she BLOCKED you. That is a very, very crystal clear NO from her. You are documenting your own stalking behavior on this forum. Personally, I think you should look into therapy as you are getting attached to a person way to quickly and the behaviors you are discussing after a very clear NO seem dangerous.

We just are not empathizing with your falsely “in love” claim. Because quite frankly it is B.S. At the end of the first date she realized that she was not compatible with you. No emotional attachment. Just a date where you thought it went great but for whatever reason she didn’t. She didn’t enough that she blocked you. Blocking, at least in my world, is pretty extreme and usually because respect was not shown.

You are stalking her or were. You sent flowers. She blocked you. Now there is diamond earrings on the way for Wednesday. Yes, stop the delivery. She does not want anything to do with you. Move on. This woman is not for you. Whatever lust/infatuation you have with her should not be mixed up with love. You don’t know enough about this woman or your compatibility with her to be calling this pain and acting like she tore your heart out. It’s a bit extreme.

T,

I agree with the other Posters.

I know it can really hurt to be on the receiving-end of painful rejection and dismissal. So I empathize with you there.

I have a close Female Friend who confided in me that she was outraged when this man, who was chasing her, showed-up at her workplace. So I feel that your love interest could likewise feel that way regarding your appearance at her workplace. In addition, while you wish to show your love for her by showering her with gifts, she may not welcome it, as she is possibly no longer interested in you. The gifts could now place her in an awkward position of being pressured to return a favor.

So it was a smart, dignified move on your part to cancel the delivery of the next gift.

Good luck!

Definitely fake post

This is getting ridiculous. You definitely need counseling if we are taking your words at face value. There is absolutely no way you should have been this attached emotionally to a woman that YOU DO NOT KNOW!

Again, claiming you are in love with her when you do not know her and professing this deep pain is extreme. Another reason for counseling.

NO! NO! NO! It is not the job of the other person to make someone else feel better, move on or give them closure. She doesn’t know you at all and is completely justified in removing you from her life by blocking you. It is not her job to stick around because you claim you are in love. It is not her job to make you feel better because her feelings are unrequited.

Please seek out therapy. It seems like you have a lot of YOU to work on before you can healthily date.