more ghosting – COVID related? Guy w/ G-friend says he's thinking about u

I don’t think all this is covid related, but the pandemic certainly exacerbates already awful behavior dating apps have created, and just keeps on breeding. People have just lost their center! A lot don’t interact with people in an authentic way because they don’t interact with themselves in a centered way. Men use women SO often for comfort, guidance, validation – then when their head is turned by something better or have a stressor – they don’t even think about the woman and just peace out.

The trick is to ignore time wasters!! Not just by physically not responding – but try to minimize how it affects you emotionally. Say a couple of curse words. Have a little laugh. Be kind to yourself if you get your feelings hurt but move on, think about something else and don’t put up with the nonsense. Poor pathetic souls who reach out to others in meaningless ways. Not today Felicia