my bf found out i was sick n he didn't do anything. Does he not love me anymore?

I’m 26 and the guy I am talking to (not exactly dating yet) is 36. He is deployed to Thialand now…when he drinks and tells me he has a headache and blah blah I say I hope you feel better…and later on I ask how he is feeling. I get sick (sick now…day two with a cold?) Almost passed out at work…and he replies with he almost passed out in the hot sun weight lifting. Really? SO I snapped. At the end of our messages…I said, Ya know a “hope you feel better” would have been great. Have a nice day! and then he messaged me and said hope you feel better. Really? really? omg…I probably am over reacting…and it makes me calm down to hear that guys aren’t as nurturing. But most guys I’ve been with were…a couple not so much…but I just thought if I got that from complete strangers from work…I should at least get that from him ya know? Anyone wanna comment I will listen to it all. Thanks Ashley for making me feel calmer that not all guys are nurturing.