My bf watches insta models

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January 26, 2021 at 10:46 am #839058 Reply

April

My bf and I have been together for 4 years. Lately I discovered that he watches pictures of Insta models in short or almost naked clothes, having very heavy breasts and butts or petite girls wearing all kinds of clothing. Should I be worried? Is this excusable? He is 26 years old.

January 26, 2021 at 12:15 pm #839066 Reply

Peggy

Hi April. The question is, is it acceptable to you? I think it is immature and disrepectful but then I think the same about frequent porn watching. If it bothers you, talk to him about but be clear in your mind what outcome you are looking for..

January 26, 2021 at 4:34 pm #839103 Reply

Kim

It depends how often he does it. Most men watch porn etc even married men, but if it’s so frequent and if he’s doing it in an obvious way while you’re around I would raise your concern . I would say something if it was my husband.

Most women don’t look like that unfortunately.

January 26, 2021 at 5:18 pm #839112 Reply

T from NY

I don’t find this disrespectful at all unless it is interfering with your relationship by preventing your boyfriend being a good partner to you. If he isn’t excessively watching, watching so much he doesn’t want to have sex with you, if he isn’t distant or moody or having a difficult time climaxing because he’s masturbating too much to his insta feed, if he isn’t making a spectacle of his habit with his friends in group chats acting like a creep or while you’re around, if he doesn’t make derogatory comments about your appearance because his mind had been warped by all the images and is generally a good boyfriend – who the heck cares?! If it’s just occasional viewing for solo time – be happy your man has a libido and just tell him to keep that hobby to himself so it doesn’t make you feel funky.

Normal. So normal. If not accompanied some of the other things I described. And nothing to worry about.
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