My boyfriend annoys me with what he tells me then blames me for reacting I think

My dear, I’m going to be real with you here. If you can’t trust the man you are dating to go speak to another woman without thinking he’s going to cheat on you with her then you need to be dating another man!! Your post makes you sound insecure and immature. You don’t like the way he texts so you tell him you’re going to leave him? You don’t like the fact he’s talking to a job advisor about things other than a job so you get angry? Then he tells you to f@@k off and hangs up on you? This whole relationship is toxic and needs to be done. 

First, why are you with a 50 year old who can’t hold down a real job? If he’s happy with just a bit of cash and you have financial goals like buying a house together, vacations, etc. this is never going to work. And if he’s texting his exes behind your back inappropriately then why do you put up with it? My opinion is you majorly overreacted about his conversation with the job advisor. When you are interviewing someone or a job and trying to find a fit you want to get to know them as a person too. I’ve done literally done hundreds of interviews in my time as a boss and business owner. And to tell you the truth very little of the conversation actually centers on the job. You are trying to get a sense of them as a person, will they fit in well in your organization, what are their strengths, their weaknesses, their likes, dislikes, etc. People can rehearse all the ways to answer an interview question. I like to ask them things they haven’t been able to rehearse. People will tell you all kinds of things if you just lead them and let them talk.

You sound like a control freak if you’re telling him who he can talk to and what he can talk about.  I doubt you would have had the same response if this was a man who gave him his life story. Seriously if you can’t trust him and this is how you act when he talks to another woman then you need to walk away. And stop threatening to walk away just because you don’t like a text. That’s so childish. It’s like the boy who cried wolf. 

Can I just say i didnt mean I dont like how he goes on in a text so I’m leaving that was an error in my post I dont like the way he goes on and I understand in interviews you have to get to know the person before you give them the job etc but hes telling me hes just sitting there listening to this work coach telling him about her life storys not the other way round she should be professional dont telling people about how many men shes been with and who cheated on her she is a work coach and should be asking him about how he should be looking for work and what courses are available and sign him up to something. Hes been with this same work coach over 4 months and she talking with hi. Like this he has come away with nothing and will carry on a other 2 weeks with no job no money and rather ring me telling me her life story I don’t want to know. Yes I am walking away I am not a control freak yes I’m insecure because of what I’ve been through with him with other women but he doesnt help situations when he goes on the way he does.

You didn’t say in your previous post he’s been working with the same woman for 4 months! Of course after 4 months and meeting with him all this time she could have become comfortable and is sharing her life story with him. It’s not like this is their first meeting. How do you know he hasn’t been telling her similar things about his exes which made her comfortable to tell him?  I normally meet with an interview applicant once or twice so no I’m not telling them about my love life! But I have shared personal stories about my kids with people. You can’t actually ask an applicant if they are married or have kids here in the US. But if they want to open up and talk about it then me sharing the fact I’m married with kids can do that.  

Wait…it just hit me you said Yes, I’m walking away. I really hope you do. This situation sounds toxic and full of resentment.

How long has he been unemployed?

You 2 live together?

Yeah, you’re wasting your time, money & life with this dud…

I’m with the OP, why on earth was this woman telling him her life story??? Hardly professional is it? Stick to what he’s there for which is find a job. Move on OP he’s never changing

Why are you with this guy again? all i see are bad qualities. Are there upsides to being with him? If not, please just move on, you deserve and can do better!