my boyfriend is ignoring me after an argument…help?

Hello Ladies,

I’ve been dating someone for the last 3-months, and we got into a drunken argument the day after new years eve. I’ve been off of work since the 24th of December and we’ve been enjoying ourselves. However, since we are now entering into our 4th month with each other, he is showing me his real self more and more. Needless to say, he’s been drunk every day since he has been off and actually now to think about it every time we talk or interact with other. So, while I’ve been off work I decided to go over his place for the new year (i.e. that Friday). He was off on that Monday, so I just stayed over because I was off. To make a long story short I was very intoxicated that night (which has only happened a few times since we’ve met with no black-outs). Basically, everything was cool we were enjoying ourselves I had expressed I didn’t want leftovers and wanted what he was going to cook us for breakfast but I never got up trying to recorporate. Shortly after that, I had inquired where the rest of the alcohol was and he had hidden it from me (mind you he finished a whole 12-pack prior earlier that night). Once he did that, I implied that I felt he thought I was a drunk girl who couldn’t handle myself. He was calm the whole time, as I progressed in my drinking I brought up some situations that had happened in the past between us and expressed that in such a little amount of time we’ve been through alot (that normally doesn’t happen in a normal or adult relationship). He then asked what I wanted to do, and I stupiditly replied IDK, and I believe in response he stated he didn’t want to deal with it. Later on that night, I believe he tried to get in the bed and I tole him he should sleep on the floor.

Needless to say, we didn’t need to have this conversation while both intoxicated and as a result I’ve tried to text him to apologize for my actions as they were out of character and I don’t get intoxicated like that often. I haven’t heard from him since Tuesday and now it’s Thursday. I’m not sure if this was plow or perfect opportunity to break up with me or if he is just pissed off our first official argument. Please keep in mind we’ve never been through anything like this before and for Christmas he met my family and we had a blast at the house as a real couple. I’m stressed out, and because I had to work that day I left after he left earlier in the morning so I wasn’t able to physically talk to him after this situation. As a result I only texted on Tuesday and Wednesday inquiring to let me know if he’s mad or it’s over. I’ll have my phone off until Sunday because I’m scared of what he’s reply will be or won’t be.

Again, we’ve never been in an agrument before to this level and have been through it but not related to alcohol or anything like that, I’m just not sure what do here because I’m not familiar as to how he deals with conflict or arguements to this level. Any help would be appreicated.

P.S. He is otherwise a perfect gentlemen, but has extreme dry humor and I’ve never been out of my character with him before.

You owe this person nothing…