My boyfriend loves me but doesn’t want to make love to me.

Stephen, whether this is a fake thread or not…this is not that uncommon.

Amelia,

Not all gay guys are flaming homosexuals.
It depends where they are on the Kinsey scale..hence, bisexuality
Bottoms, tops, blah, blah

Many gay mean are attracted to women…they are still men you know!

My friends fiance was a star on the college basketball team.
There are quite a few closeted gays in the NFL 😉 one of the most masculine, tough guy sports in the world. Hell, even a famous professional boxer, Orlando Cruz, is gay.

Anyway, I really hope it all works out for you.

So update. I have spoken to him and we think he might have something like a glucose intolerance as he gets tired after eating and that’s what the issue is. He just has no energy after eating during the day so by the time he’s come home from work and eaten dinner he’s ready to pass out but didn’t want to just do nothing and make me think he’s gone off me. So definitely a lack of communication on both parts!!

Amelia, lack of communication? sweetheart don’t be that naive and so willing to dive in denial. At 25 men do have sex with their GFs, even if they watch a lot of porn and jerk off to it incessantly. They still manage to have sex at least sometimes.

His glucose intolerance did not prevent him from receiving all the oral sex from you, did it? Did not prevent him to joke and brush you off when you asked him to help you finish.

I agree that he might be latently gay and I also suspect porn.

When he tries to joke you away next time, don’t let him. Tell him what you need him to do.

But unfortunately I don’t think things would improve in any significant way. He might do what you need once or twice, but then he’d go back to his own ways.

Ok this cant be real. Im done after this. Does he work everyday of the week. Why cant he have sex on his days off, why cant yall have sex in the morning. He’s making excuses, if you want to settle for him, thats your head ache. Be in a sexless relationship then