My boyfriend said “i love you” but he said it after i gave him money

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  • September 12, 2020 at 6:15 am #812502 Reply
    Huney

    My boyfriend is going through financially. So I gave him some money to pay his light bill and he said “ OMG ! i love you so much” i didn’t say it back i just smiled and said “you’re welcome “ but he texted me this morning and said it again “Goodmorning. i love you”

    September 12, 2020 at 8:22 am #812515 Reply
    Newbie

    I love people too who give me money. Because its generous and it feels they have my back when im having a difficult time.

    But dont buy his love. See this as a one time thing. If he has financial troubles, he needs to sort it out for himself.

    September 12, 2020 at 8:24 am #812516 Reply
    Huney

    I mean i do have his back but he only said. I love you because i helped him. So should i take it at face value ?

    September 12, 2020 at 8:36 am #812521 Reply
    Jane

    Take it at face value for now.. but be careful giving him too much money and judge the situation on how it progresses and see if he keeps saying I love you after you’ve spent more time together.

    September 12, 2020 at 8:59 am #812524 Reply
    Newbie

    Who knows? We know nothing about this relationship besides the fact you gave him money and he loved you for that.

    September 12, 2020 at 9:12 am #812527 Reply
    Huney

    Okay. We haven’t been together that long but i was just surprised he said it. Feels like he only said it because i gave him a helping hand

    September 12, 2020 at 9:45 am #812534 Reply
    Tallspicy

    You should not be paying his bills. Specially if you are newly dating. What the actually f are you doing? Did he actually ask you to?

    He is a man. He pays his own bills. You want to pay for some dates, ok, but he will come to resent you for it so stop it.

    September 12, 2020 at 9:53 am #812537 Reply
    Huney

    Yes he asked to borrow some money

    September 12, 2020 at 11:05 am #812550 Reply
    Sensy

    It is not a good situation. You should be the last person he asks to borrow money.

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