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Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › My boyfriends told me he likes me n not loves me but still cares in all ways
Erin.
Isabella
I have known he for like 1.5 years and it stared of as mutual effort getting to knwo eachother. He is a physician and has tough job timings and did do 2 jobs to support some of my studying abroad and told me this is regardless of how we end up.
Well he didnt come see me when I was 5 hrs away. But then he was working 2 jobs.
When I tried to get distanced because I thought he has told me that he likes me n not loves me I should leave although it was not easy.
Just i do so he starts texting that he misses me but then the level of emotional investment is minimal.
I don’t know sometimes I feel eh does love me but would not confess for I dont know what reason.
Soemtimes I feel i should leave bcz we just running in circels
Erin
Hi Bella,
I’m not understanding something. Did you say you are girlfriend and boyfriend and he said he doesn’t love you but he just likes you? Can you repeat that part, I’m confused.
But I can touch on some things from experience, dating a medical doctor can be hard, for some reason most are emotionally unavailable individuals or rather aloof because it’s a stressful profession a lot of the times.
A lot of absenteeism may happen too,by the time to want to connect they just want to rest
They hardly talk about their issues, I guess having a job where you’re constantly playing God teaches you to bite the bullet when it comes to your own issues.
It’s one profession where it feels like there’s 3 of you in the relationship.
Erin
Also, how many times have y’all seen each other, do you stay together and are you done studying abroad? Sorry I’m trying to understand your situation.
Kudos to him for financing part of your education though!
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