My ex is still contacting me but has a girlfriend.

I am sorry you are hurting.

I do not understand this after breakup relationship you two have….WHAT?

It makes no sense and is only painful…you are not friends…you are bitter towards each other.

STOP – think what you are doing….do not contact him…block him from contacting you.

Grieve and then move forward…leave the past in the past.

Well then take it a step further and block him.
Only he knows why he is contacting you. Don’t rack your brain trying to figure out his motives behind such behavior.

Hello May

I’ve deactivated all accounts on social media so there’s no way he can send me an email. He hasnt texted he’s just been calling like 20+ calls but I ignored them all. I texted him to leave me alone and go bother his girlfriend but he keeps calling. Not even a single text.
He’s not single. He’s dating another girl. She posted up a photo of them on Facebook. Made it official.
This is all messing me up

Hi Grace.

Its an interesting phenomena that when you ignore them they act crazy, but if a lady does it to them they are considered “crazy”. She’s a rebound as its rather normal thing someone to fill the void with another but eventually as their head becomes clearer they realize they weren’t honest with themselves about the reasons for dating (filling a void) and not being in he right mental state of mind. You still have his heart as it takes quite awhile to close that chapter and be able to start a new one with someone else.

He’s going through the “what do I want” phase where he’s missing you but not wanting to be with you either, if that makes sense. This can last for quite awhile depending upon the length of the relationship and he’s going through a lot of inner turmoil no differently than you are. He obviously wants to talk so maybe hear him out and if he goes negative then hang up and block all further attempts.

Update: He didn’t call me after I sent him the text for him to not text me or call me cause I wanted closure. Unless he had something important to say, he’d call and I’ll hear out. But he hasn’t made contact with me after that txt.
what do you think?
Did he take my txt into heart ?
or is he busy with work at the moment or maybe he’s sleeping with his new girlfriend? :(
Please someone advice
I’m devastated

My x boyfriend moved on in 2months. We were together for 10 years. Nc for months , then on and off contact . The last time we spoke i asked him if he was happy with this woman . He said satified ,but happiest when he was with me . I asked do you love her , he said yes . But he still loves me and thinks about me all the time . So i am very confused i still love him but i am haveing a hard time moveing on . His last words was i love you you ya know . I said ok goodbye . Please give me your input ,i am so confused . I really beluve he does love me . But it just didn’t work out and it’s hard to let go after a 10 year relationship.

I have a friend who used to get calls/texts from her ex even though he was dating another girl. They used to increase when he and the girl were on a break (used to happen often as they fought a lot). I told her why did she want all the drama in her life and why couldn’t she just block him. So she did and even after blocking him, he found a way to contact her. So then she did the only thing she could think of – she messaged his gf and asked her to ask him to stop contacting her as she is tired of telling him the same thing and inspite of being blocked he still found a way to contact her. Now both of them have blocked her and her life is drama free …. blissful!!

The reason why I told you this is that it doesn’t matter why he is calling you or texting you or what have you. The fact is that he is no longer your bf and dating someone else (irrespective of whether she is a rebound or not). YOU GUYS ARE NOT TOGETHER. And unless and until you are truly enjoying the drama it brings into your life … cut him out and block him. Be thankful that he listened to you and stopped contacting you. Now you can start the painful journey of healing from your relationship.

Aw hes all messed up and doesn’t know what he wants. Mr right does not let you go and start dating someone else, you deserve better than this believe me. Be strong and do your best to get over this. Focus on you and not him.. Don’t try and work out what hes doing and why, hes maybe not even sure himself. Don’t stalk him on social media, call a friend if you get the urge to do this. This is not easy but in time the pain will diminish. No contact really does help. Do your best to be good to yourself, get a makeover, buy new shoes, try something new at the gym or exercise class. Anything that makes you feel better. He probably will get in touch soon and maybe you should just talk to him and get the closure but do not accept any nonsense, no one is forcing him to date another girl. Be clear if he chooses to do this its unacceptable behaviour. Good luck. x

I’m still inlv with my ex itryd nc even go 4lng trip just 2ignore him bt its hurts a lot coz I still love hm.I reached out to him bt still he ignores me irly lv hm so much!idnt know wat 2do anymore coz I can’t move on n its ben 7months nw bt stl can’t forgt hm.plz hlp

I’m dealing with a narcissist, he is with a girfriend but keeps harrassing me. We where together 10 years. He told me he was done with me, he did not feel the same way he loved me but not with the same intensity then right away started dating the new woman. He doesn’t leave me alone hit keeps come talk to me for no reason and I don’t want to hear from him anymore. He is torturing me. He is definitely a narcissist.

My boyfriend broke up with me a year ago and started dating someone new right away. We kept up a phone relationship for months. He makes no attempts to see me yet he talks with me about getting back together all the time. He tells me he loves me and misses me. He calls me and wants to know everything about my life. He’s on my FB page all the time he says, talks about what he sees, but never posts. I found out he took his new gf out on New Years Eve to a 5 star hotel where he took me. I was devastated. I left messages and vented, heart broken but he never returned my calls or emails. Three months later he comes to my house when he knew I was as away and left a BlueRay disc of a play I was in under the doormat he obtained from production. (He came to the play but didn’t see me after). He called ten days later acting as if nothing happened about our falling out over NYE. . He talks to me sweet, then discusses getting back together again and talking about his reservations knowing I still love him and would want him back. Days later he took his new gf on an expensive vacation and to meet her family obviously planned well ahead. Why did he call me out of the blue months later after I found out about NYE and was so hurt? I told him I don’t want to be just phone friends and that we need to see each other in person instead of keeping me for hours on the phone. I still love him, he calls, but doesn’t make an effort to see me citing he’s afraid he’ll either disappoint himself or disappoint me. What does he want from me? Why is he acting this way?

I feel like a prisoner in a cage. What can I do? How do I get free? I feel like a sitting duck if he calls. And I found out he took his new gf to Costa Rica at a posh hotel.