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JKL.
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Newbie
My best friend is also a gay man and my financee can handle that just fine. Its a 35 year old relationship and no way anyone can get in between that. But thats totally besides the point. If you think men and women cant be friends then think that. But i have lots of male friends and i wouldnt want to miss out on their views, sense of humour etc
Kat
I didn’t say that newbie… Read the fine print!
I said your spouse or significant other/fiancée should be your BFF…
tboz
@Tam my question was for someone further up that said military guys have a reputation for being unfaithful and I was just asking for clarification.
Tom
Kat-
Ah, got it. I’ve brought my wife up numerous times. And the fact that we’ve been married over 25 years doesn’t really relate to many of the post/conversations here. So that’s why it’s rare that I use that to prove my point. I did bring up my Best Female Friend to prove the point that men and women can be close w/o anything going on.
So yes, I totally get the OPs shock as to what happened to her cuz there is no way you could see that coming or want that to happen.
Anything else Kat? And btw, BFF isn’t the term I use to describe her anywhere else but here. I referenced my male BFF also. Does that make me gay as well? Is that supposed to be a slam or just an observation? Cuz I thought we were all past the need to distinguish between gay, straight, black, white, Protestant, Jew, Kat, dawg, etc, etc.
redcurleysue
I also had it happen to me and I did not snapchat or anything.
It is the man’s problem totally. He has a loyalty issue. I am sorry for his wife.
Some men feel that life is short and they should have anything they can get…it does not occur to them how much hurt they cause only the consumption of pleasure.
What makes them that way? Who knows or cares really….but there are men (and women) who cannot see past the nose on their face.
I know you feel guilty in keeping this to yourself and also sad that your husband and this man’s wife are in the dark…but overall it would cause more drama in their lives than is necessary at this time. As long as this man leaves you alone all is good…but if he starts up again you will have no choice but to tell your husband and discuss with him if the wife needs to know.
Honestly, I believe she suspects him of things…not specifics but she suspects him of deceptions….so on some level she already knows…
Hannah
Actually I would tell my husband. Keeping secrets in a marriage isn’t good. I know! If your husband found out some way and you didn’t tell him, it will cause issues and a lack of trust. It’s not worth risking a dent in your relationship by keeping it quiet. You’ve done nothing wrong so he’s not going to be upset with you.
JKL
Dont send pictures or he will use them to black mail you, in exchange of sex.
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