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Rose.
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Rose
Lol … I’ll do that redcurleysue!
Yeah he only thinks about himself.
I’ll do the same from now on and give only what they deserve.
:)
JR
“he showed interest again until he got what he wanted… Then morning came and he was someone else”
Don’t you hate that! ugh I just ended that bs with my last s/o for 10months. yes i miss him and i still have some clothes of his and I made the mistake of smelling them and i got those icky feelings. I wanted to reach out but I did’t. I remembered how I did not want to feel ever again. Rose, we all do that all the time. The hear wants what it wants, you can’t help who you care for or desire. You just have to realize what the situation is and like the saying goes….it is what it is. Not “see I told you so” Rose we have all been there and some of us still there don’t beat yourself up.
Rose
Thanks for your kind words JR.
Do I hate that? I felt sooooo bad and used when he woke up all pissed off and started getting dressed up in a hurry, I felt like the world was collapsing. I thought “oh man, he did it again, why can’t I understand he’s not good”?
The feeling of being discarded like a dirty diaper is unbearable, I had panic attacks all day long.
The good thing about all that pain is that, he’s out of my system for good. I no longer think he cares about me.
And yes, you’re right. I do not ever want to feel that pain again, I would rather hit my little toe against the coffee table.
soni
thanx rose for your thread. guess we at times overlook some obvious flaws telling ourselves we cant be too fussy. but these in turn, I suppose are pointers to how things may pan out in future. wasted my time on a player. almost 3 years! he wld come and go as he pleased and somehow I let it. I wld continue living my life and doing my stuff. but the min he would text me I wld fall over again. I had it bad. problem was he never used any harsh words nor got angry ever. alwys polite charming and complimentary. so I continued festering a soft corner for him. I think your lucky he showed u his dual personality soon. u got off easy.. chill be happy and get going. :-)
Ayu
Hi Rose, you don’t love him. You just love the way he treats you and having him around – when he is in his right mind.
Block him right back! Not only from WhatsApp, but from your life! unless you can control and maintain your feelings of ‘he is only an eff buddy’…not more :)Dauny
Never feel discarded again by being the first to leave. If you ever get into that situation again, Get up and start getting dressed, telling him your busy, got stuff to do. Insist he leave right away. Tell him “you have to go, now…” Then when he calls, don’t answer, or answer with short benign text. Don’t see him again unless you want to, knowing full well what you can expect of him. He he starts to chase, do not assume things will be any different on the future. He is a different animal than us. You may say, but I’m not like that–I’m not into games. Well, he is. Beat him at his own game, whether you see him again or not.
Dauny
I guarantee you will feel better if you do that. Do not give them the opportunity to hurt you. You will feel empowered. He has you on the hook, but so do you have him on the hook, use it.
Rose
Exactly I loved the way he treated me when he was trying to get laid…
Dauny, I don’t think I’ll ever go there again, the pain is just too much, not worth it … If I ever fall for something like that it’s a good idea, kicking him out before he can say good morning.
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