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Molly
So this weekend I was on a festival and after that I went partying in a club. Safe to say that I wasn’t really sober. I met a guy there and we made out and had a lot of fun.
I stayed in a hostel with some other friends (in the same room) and he needed a place to crash as well. I checked with my friends and for them it was okay that he stayed over as well.
So we just slept together, kissed, hugged and fondled a bit. Nothing more. I caught him looking at me and smiling and it was really cute. After a good sleep we showered together and things heated up. We didn’t have sex though. He wasn’t even allowed to touch my ladyparts. We had a little nap afterwards and then he left home.
When he left my friends asked me: ‘did you get his number, he was so sweet. You guys were so cute and romantic’. I said;’ no, he didn’t ask me. If he is really interested he would’ve asked. I’m not going to chase him around.’
After that, he actually found me on facebook. No idea how he did that, because I don’t remember me giving him my last name. But fine, I accepted his request. I send him a little joke about his favorite soccer team and had a little chat. Next day I don’t hear anything. Today he messaged, asking me if I got sick because of the festival (I wasn’t feeling well today and made a status update). So we talked a little more, made some jokes about him bringing me his burger and me giving him my chicken and rice. And that I should come by and visit his place one time.
So, I’m kind of confused. Because normally I don’t add them on facebook (if I have one night or semi one night stands). And I’m not sure what to think of it? What do you guys think?
Jules
It sounds like he’s trying to secure himself a casual sex friend.
Here’s what I see. He didn’t ask for you number, he didn’t initiate the conversation once you did add him and he didn’t ask you on a real date.
“I should come by and visit his place one time” = SEX or something close to it
I don’t see this becoming more unless he steps up which I’m not seeing right now. It was one night. Maybe he’s one of those people that likes to have lots of FB friends. I’ve definitely met people in my life who want to add me when we barely just met.
Molly
Hmm I don’t think he is one of those people who wants a lot of facebookfriends. I’ll see where this goes. He still has time to step up his game, I only had him on facebook for like 2 days :)
Thanks for your insight tough!
kaye
I think social media is no indication of interest. If the guy gets your phone number and starts asking you out then you will know! Until then speculating why he did this or that is a waste of time. And by asking you out I mean on an actual date where he buys you dinner or takes you to a movie, etc. Not a come hang out at my apartment couch date which usually only means he’s interested in sex.
Molly
So a little update on the situation.
Yesterday we went on our first ‘official’ date, we went to see an exposition we both liked. We kissed afterwards and than went for a drink. We are meeting up again tomorrow! In the afternoon we are going to some local music festival and after that we’re going to cook together.I think this is going the right way :) He texted me that he had a great time and had the feeling that he already knew me. Which he found kind of weird, but he liked it. He texted me this morning, to ask how I was etc. So I’m starting to believe that this might actually work out for once!
The only thing that might be a buzzkill is that he is 4 years younger than me. But we’ll see how that goes.
But sometimes you just have to have a little faith that not every guy is an *sshole!
Ollie
It sounds like you are having fun. Good for you! Maybe this will blossom, or maybe it will be a little summer romance, or just a fun fling. Be safe, enjoy, don’t overthink, and don’t do anything your gut tells you not to do.
Cali
Sounds good!
Have fun
Selena
It sounds good to me. He took the time to try and find you and add you as a friend, and you went on a fun date, not a booty call, and he’s actively contacting you.
Enjoy
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