Pics of His Ex

Im so sorry but this just made me laugh (even knowing its not that funny) but you were so down and wanted to see kids of his kids to cheer you up (which really reeks needy sort of) and instead you got to see the ex naked.
Normally i would say your request is ok and he should have no trouble honouring that. But i have a feeling you flipped put on other occasions as well. Since he said he wouldnt give in this time. Is that true and what are the causes? I would say in general it goes two ways: you are insecure and act jealous and demanding very fast. Or he is being sketchy about his exes and love for you making you insecure. In both those cases there is work to be done about the relationship as its bigger than the exes naked butt.
If none of this is true and he is a good loving bf you can talk to him when youre both calm. I personally would never demand my bf to remove something on his phone But i would ask to delete a naked ex yes. Probably. Its all about tone here and what other demands you had in the past

Im starting to laugh again. Not sure why i do this. Because its so not what you want to see. Again the request is fair to me. If looking back you flipped out you could say sorry you were caught by surprise. A relationship to me is really about bigger things, which could also be you adoring his daughter (it was the context of youre being down and looking to bf for a receipe i think that made me call it sort of needy). Of course only you can tell if all the ingrediënts are there. If they are, you laugh together about the naked ex. Take care

I would be upset if my boyfriend had naked pics of an ex on his phone. It’s one thing to enjoy looking at beautiful naked women. I have no problem with a man looking at porn for example. In fact I’ve watched porn with my bf and we both enjoy it. I’m not threatened by that. I’m not threatened by the thought of him looking at pics of random naked women. But an ex is a totally different story! There’s a personal, emotional relationship and attachment there that would bug the cr@p out of me. Just my two cents.

So if I saw my ex had naked pics of his ex on his phone, I’d be upset. There are millions of women in the world, if he wants to look at naked women, he can look at someone besides his ex. I call bullsh!t on your bf getting angry, I think it’s a reasonable request to ask him to delete it. If the shoe were on the other foot and you were walking around with naked d!ck pics of an ex boyfriend, would your current boyfriend be OK with that? Heck no!

Thank you all. I would have no idea if he was recently viewing them, or if they were just left on his phone. I don’t know. I also know I had requested he remove them (angrily, at first, I was upset and taken aback).