Need advice about a guy I've been seeing

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November 26, 2023 at 3:32 pm #943158 Reply

Kay

I’ve been seeing this guy for about 2 months and we haven’t put a label on it. We go out, he’s been to my place and I’ve been to his place. I’ve met his daughter. This past week we spent almost everyday together. One day he came over and helped with some things and I thanked him. He said you’re welcome that’s what friends do. I said friends.. he said he can’t think about dating (girlfriend) when he’s unemployed and looking for a job. Yes while we’ve been seeing each other the company he works for closed its door without notice. His daughter his 14 and lives with him.
He said he didn’t want to put labels on it and I’m the only friend he’s seeing like he is. We text and or talk everyday.
My question is can being unemployed keep a guy from committing? I feel like we’re together.

November 26, 2023 at 3:56 pm #943160 Reply

Tallspicy

Yes, men need to have their lives in order to be good in a relationship and commit. If you want a relationship, I suggest you tell him to call you when he is sorted out. You are not together. Men can do a lot that feels like one… you are on notice now. And the women that support men while they are not together get used and tossed. So either end it, or really only be friends.

November 27, 2023 at 6:00 am #943163 Reply

Ewa

you’re a place holder until he sorts his life out and actually wants to commit, but he won’t commit to you, he will find someone else.
He told you are friends , he won’t change his mind.

November 27, 2023 at 5:16 pm #943164 Reply

Khadija

Then start acting like a friend and date men that are ready for a relationship. Men like him go on to date women who don’t wait around. He’s made it clear, if you stick around because you feel like this is a relationship you’ll get your heart broken.
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