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Tallspicy.
Anna
I matched with this guy on a few dating apps over the last couple years. We only just met in person about two weeks ago. We met at his place in the evening, made out and fooled around a bit. We’ve talked a bit since then and wanted to “hang out again soon” on Thursday. I said I had a few days off and he said he had a lot to do (which was legit) but hasn’t made any concrete plans. I feel like I’m initiating conversations now. I’m not sure what my question is or if there’s any general advice anyone can offer…
Maddie
I never had much luck with seemingly “missed connection” matches on dating apps. If it took that long to finally connect and talk / meet in person after seeing each other several times on several apps and matching but not getting it together over the years, there was a reason for it. Usually that reason was the guy was a flake (or not actually single). I’d treat this as low priority and not invest in him right now, and if he takes the initiative and creates real momentum to move things forward then great. Otherwise, keep dating other people and just let him fade out if that’s what he’s going to do.
Maddie
Also, meeting for the first time at his place to hook up instead of out in person on a date is usually a booty call match and nothing more. If you’re looking for more, don’t settle for a home date that quickly because he’s already telling you exactly how much effort he’s willing to put in (none!).
Raven
@Anna!
Meeting a guy that you met on a dating site for the very first time @ his place is Very Risky… Yikes
Tallspicy
You went to a strangers house and fooled around? That is grotesquely dangerous.
Advise:
A. Make a man take you out
B. Don’t fool around any expect anything
C. Let the man lead for the first 4 dates and if he is not, he is not interested
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