Never the right one

Hi Cait being in your early 30’s is still more than enough time to find the right guy. It seems you have allowed these bad experiences to control your thoughts instead of seeing it as “not the right guy for me”. If you need a confidence boost there are so many sites/books that can help. Just off the top of my head some things to consider are exercise, eating healthy, changing your hair, yoga, meditation and hanging out with friends. Finding that comfort within yourself and finding something your passionate about. Men see confidence as a woman who enjoys her life and doesn’t need a man to complete it, its not necessarily about the looks. Even women whom society considers as beautiful have self esteem issues and only focus on the exterior than what’s inside. If you are picking men who are not into you what is the common denominator there are you going for looks or men who are emotionally unavailable? I would suggest reading the book “Attached” and try to figure out if you are simply interested in men who are avoidant (fear of commitment).