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Evelyn
Going to give a quick recap of my current situation
-About three weeks ago, I went on a terrific first date. I texted to thank him and he immediately asked if I was available for another date at the end of the week.
-went on a great second date. Over the weekend, o had asked if he wanted to get together the next week and he suggested a day early in the week.
-went on an even better third date and at the end, he mentioned that he was free later in the week and to
Check my schedule.
-scheduled a fourth date but due to an unplanned work project, he asked to reschedule but with no specific date. He did know I was going out of town in a couple of days though.
-while out of town, we exchanged texts a few times a
day.
-so now I’m back home, do I wait for him to initiate or do I ask him to do something next week? We vaguely talked about ideas for plans during the week but not definitively. I’m trying to figure out if he’s still interested. In my gut I think he is, but as an overthinker, I can always come up reasons why he is not interested anymore.MaryYou must let him chase. Focus on something else in the meantime.
tammydoes he know your back?
RubiI’m asking the same as Tammy. Does he know you’re back?
Give it a day or two, take the time to settle home. He will probably text you as your usual soon.
CrysHe asked to reschedule first, I would let him follow through this time. If he wanted to meet, he would text to check in regardless.
AYou shouldn’t have planned any of the dates. This is a man’s job as they are hunters and their natural instinct is to pursue. I’ve been dating a guy for six weeks and he has planned every date, followed up on every date, always calls or texts me first, everyday, and pays everytime. I have not had to lift a finger the entire time. If the interest is there, they will put in the work.
ZoeWhy are you doing so much initiating?
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