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Last week, while hunting for a new flatshare, I met two girls. They both lived together, but one of them was moving to a different city for six months, and they were looking for someone to take her room in the meantime.
We had a really cool, fun and a tiny bit flirtatious conversation through Zoom for about an hour, and they said they would send me a message regarding if I would have the room or not. I already expected not to get the room (because I felt the situation would be a little bit weird if I just moved in with one of them for a couple of months after we flirted a little bit on a zoom call), but once I got their answers I asked them for their Insta contacts, saying I had found a flatshare myself but would love keeping in touch, because we had a great time on zoom. And it actually worked. Both of them said they had a great time and sent me their insta contacts.
So, the question is: what’s next? As I said, one of the girls will be away for a couple of months, and I’ve never met them personally. What would be some good follow ups? Should I keep flirting with both of them, or focus on the girl who is staying in town? Should I try asking her out right away?
Thank you
KimThere’s no harm in a bit of flirting, but you obviously can’t be dating both of them as someone will get hurt and these two girls are friends. Do you want to be the jerk that comes between two friends?
If one girl is moving away is there even a point in you starting anything with her? Can you handle a long distance relationship? Long distance relationships are not easy. I did long distance with my now husband for almost a year. You have to make sure you talk everyday in order to maintain the connection with the person.
If you like the girl that is staying in town there’s no harm in asking her to go out for a coffee, or lunch. You’ve got nothing to lose. Only good can come from it if she accepts. If not it’s not the end of the world.
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