Nothing ever happens

Hello Gorgeous Girls,

Harley, I was so excited to read you got your shed. I hope that you’ll be able to get a permit. I’m sure if it’s on a heritage site it must be nice and well-kept no? Oh thanks for your feedback on the book.

Vi – Can I get a copy of the book that Harley is talking about? Or can you give me the name of it and I’ll find it. :)

Maria, I will definitely read the ANM articles when I get a chance and give you my take on them.

“It has actually been proven in MRI tests that telling yourself that you already have something/that you are well if you’re sick etc, is very stressful to your brain (and body/soul).” I find this interesting, I wonder if it’s because people then fixate on having whatever it is and worry if it doesn’t happen. I think this can be the case for people who don’t necessarily believe that that it’s not an overnight thing, it happens in time. Basically, ask, believe and receive. This might be people that don’t quite get the laws of attraction or think it’s a get quick type scheme. I don’t know if what I’m saying makes sense.

Vi – No updates on the ex. For a brief period I felt a bit bad about some of the things I said to him the other day and was going to just send him a random text, not apologizing but rather just something neutral like hope the event on Sunday went well. So he knows I don’t have hard feelings. I just felt bad bec during our text convo I said something about one of his friends treating him badly yet he had made so many efforts with him and I who did nothing to him per se got some of the worst treatment. He said I spent as much time as possible with you as I could …and I said it wasn’t about the time rather two people who understood one another and perhaps we didn’t and were incompatible. I just felt bad bec maybe it was harsh and that’s not my nature. I re-read the texts again and decided against sending a text bec it will just continue on and what’s the point. I also re-read some of the not so nice things he said to me. We got into this whole thing bec he brought up coming over to see me and then launched into what happened kinda. I don’t know what he wants. One of my friends says he still has feelings and I won’t lie I do care about him as someone who was a part of my life. At one point I even said to him if you cared then you could have helped make things right. He said I do care I’m talking to you now and I even wished you a happy birthday. I feel like we’re not talking properly and I just don’t have any more energy to fight /talk about the same things over and over with him. I was fine when we were just shooting the shit and it was casual convo. Anyway, that’s it really.

Hi Beautifuls !

I pulled out of shed sale. Planners got back to me and said not a hope in hell of converting. I have been looking at more properties further away. Some things are meant to be.

I have decided to check out jobs in Germany next I am there. probably a pipe dream but no harm in thinking. Not because of Frank.. but in general. I have NO idea what I ma doing with my life since I sold my house near a yr ago. I have NO ties now her. My son is old enough. I can take a career break.. I just need another job !

I have signed up and paid for a Teach English as a Foreign Language course. My female friend in Germany.. she works at this… so she can give me tips.

I will probably not move… am just exploring my options !

Serena.. am glad all is ok. You are doing GREAT. It’s funny how a few months have changed us all !

Vi.. life is also good with you. keep it up. NO goig backwards.

Maria.. life is ALWAYS good with you these days. Read your crystal ball for me please.. I’m a capricorn. Stubborn, horny, thorny old goat !

Oh Harley, I’m sorry about the shed. You never know what’s around the corner, something bigger and better. It’s always nice to know your options, even if a move to Germany wasn’t in the very near future at least you know it’s an option ;)

Teaching English is something I’ve wanted to do too. It’s one of those things I think is rewarding personally – learning new cultures and exploring parts of the world. How exciting.

Vi – Got it thank you, replied to your email and sent you info in return.
It’s not always easy to stop worrying after all we’re human but it’s training oneself. I still don’t always practice what I preach with regard to this stuff. But I’m learning.

Ok so ladies, I did end up texting him a neutral text, it was bugging me all day that our convo wasn’t the nicest. The way I see it is regardless of what he says to me – that’s him. And if I want to just put out some positive energy then I should do it for me not bec I want to engage him in convo. Now unfortunately, I’m stressing myself out and thinking about it. Arghhhhhh. I vowed I would not go background. :( I feel like this is step back for me. Or maybe I’m just over thinking it and I just need to leave it be and it is what it is. I’m still free to move forward and meet new people right. Oh dear.

Harley, you’re so right. I’m just going to leave it. I control my actions and what he thinks doesn’t matter. I’ve already had a few sleepless nights, but not bec of this. Thanks H. hugs.

Harley you’re new positive healthy attitude is amazing. :) For sure people are going to notice, happy people can be infectious.

AAh, Friday! Hello, my favorite girls <3

Serena, yes I think the stress comes from worrying it won’t come true. I think our brain finds it easier to cope with something we really believe could be true, instead of the “lie” that it already is true. Personality type and way of thinking could also play a part (like you suggested)…

If someone feels happy doing affirmations they should totally do it though IMO.

Personally, affirmations and ask, believe, receive is not my thing. I dislike that it disregards being in the now and the fact that true inner happiness is not about being happy because you get what you want, it is about being happy REGARDLESS of if you get it or not.

I prefer dreaming about things, going for my dreams, and as said be happy regardless of if I manage to fulfill them or not.

As for your ex, what did your text say?

Harley, lol, I guess I just am a really positive person… (to the point that it actually annoys my friends sometimes)…

I can tell you that yesterday wasn’t exactly a top day though. I was expecting handymen between 8 and 9 in the morning… and they showed up 5 to… 2 pm. Then the “job” they did took 5 minutes to do and I would have done it 10 times better myself (which I told them) (and I also told them it made me happy that I will never see them again)…

That may sound harsh but it’s not. We’re getting our balcony/terrace doors renovated in my house (apartment building) (50 apartments and 50 doors), and the door guys have been running in and out all summer, somehow managing to not once do anything right or on time. The “incident” yesterday wasn’t the first, it was like the fiftieth.

It really wasn’t funny when I was in the situation, but I did laugh later when I called a friend and told her about it…

As for the “crystal balling”, I’ll focus and see if something comes up… and I’ll tell you about it tomorrow/within a couple of days.

Vi, I watched part 2 last night, and again, it’s great. Not in the way that I’m learning something new, but in the way that they are confirming what I already know – and they do it in a really simple and interesting, yet direct and non censored way (which is great for people who know nothing about the subject).

I’d like to point out that I don’t eat the way he does though. I don’t eat red meat at all. I basically eat chicken/turkey, fish and eggs, vegetables, avocados, olives, nuts, beans, lentils and lots of butter, coconut and olive oil. Did you eat like him when eating high fat?

Maria… you sound like you could be in ireland, this is how Irish builders go on. we are well fed up of them. I slept in this morning but it’s Friday so WAYHEH !

Yep.. SELF LOVE EVERYONE !

I can’t do it. I tried. I am crap at IT and get all stressed. I don’t know whether I a meant to log in on gravatar, or START a new grvater etc etc etc. I NEED BABY STEPS explained on how to do it.

I just..GAVE UP !

Well said Serena.

YES.. I need help. google the thing yourself and give me condensed step by step instructions please.

OK, I’ll try to be clear:

1. Click on www . gravatar . com in Erics post.

2. Click on “sign in” (top right corner).

3. Click on “need an account?” and enter your email address, username (Harley) and password.

4. Click on “sign up”.

5. They (worldpress . com) will send you an email to confirm your address.

6. Click on “activate account” in that email.

7. They will thank you for confirming your email and ask if you want to go back to Gravatar.

8. Click on “sign in to Gravatar”. By doing that you automatically log in to Gravatar, and when in there you can put up a pic. You just choose a pic you have in your phone or computer, and if you want to you can zoom/cut it.

Remember/write down your password, cause you will need it if you want to change your pic.

If it doesn’t work, just tell me and we’ll figure out what went wrong.

your not you’re

Ha, we all posted almost at the same time…

SOOOO.. Maria, now you know what I look like !

Is it what you thought ????

Thanks for emails all, cd and book. I have NO idea how to use CD, and book not emailig to my work address to print off. but I’ll figure it all out.

THANKS for all the support !

ha ha ha. Yep.. all you say is true Maria. I shall HAVE to wear the red dress.. hope the German sees it to piss him off !!! Yes… upload.. QUICK !

Serena…This ongoing saga still with your guy is REALLY interesting. It’s like a soap opera.. what WILL he say next, HOW will he step the pace up. It’s sure keeping me entertained ( in an inquisitive way.. NOT .. in a I’m laughing/enjoying it way.)I KNOW that is NOT your intent but I love analysing people and trying to figure brains out at times.

Vi…. hope it’s a happy, happy friday.

I’m off to County MAYO tomorrow to look at a house. 3 hrs away. Something to be at. I can always transfer the job !