Nothing ever happens

Aww wow – thank you girl! Can I quote you on that? (THat’s not a joke! Haha :D) I’m so glad you enjoyed it :)

Harley, I was in Dublin, not Limerick. Sorry the house didn’t work out!

Serena, sorry you’ve not been well! Sending you hugs…

I had a brilliant time in Ireland… it was so good :) I’m feeling a bit negative today though; probably from tiredness. I’m literally going to bed now.

Maria, could you do a crystal ball reading for me too?!

Hugs girls x x x

List..lust

Ha Maria… the guy in the construction industry could be.. another Frank. He has a Gf but has run into me lately and stops to chat. i dated his bro though yrs ago. he is a lovely guy… but too boring and sensible for me. he used to play on a football team my dad set up yrs ago.

I went to see a fortune teller tongiht. I saw him a few mths ago and he predicted mike was not for me.. a liar and cheat with another woman and that i would meet a “married guy” who is not really married and who may well turn out to be the love of my life.( Frank ???)I said i would not date a married man, and fortune teller siad ” you will this one, you cannot help yourself, you will understand when it happens”.

So.. tonight.. he mentioned do not go back to Mike. He said I met a guy recently, with one child, a son( frank???) who carries baggage. I shall have more fun with this person and by xmas it shall tell if we are serious or not. I will have to do things to make this relationship work… if I want it to work. I shall become like a mother to his child. i shall have an unexpected holiday soon. THE BIG NEWS WAS…… I am thinking of a career change, a different job in a different place.( lately I mentioned I would go back to Germany if I found a job… I am doing a TEFL course ). I am to go for this as I shall be very successful at it. I will attend a funeral soon in a different locality where I do not know many of the mourners ( strange !!!). He told me to text frank… I will… end Sept FB timeline post for his birthday !

So… interesting !

VERY interesting indeed!

Hmm… so your dad might be the coach, or perhaps the construction guy has been a coach at some point in his life.

I saw Christmas too, but didn’t want to say anything till after your trip to Germany. I thought no need to give you hopes if I’m wrong about it (like if you don’t even meet Frank in Germany).

I also saw that you’ll get something in the mail, like a confirmation or some sort of document (house papers? a course diploma?)…

And there’s something with a shoebox with something in it… (could be as simple as shoes that matches your red dress)…

The houses you check out, are they small or medium in size? 1-2 or 2-3 bedrooms?

Vi, Serena I miss you <3

Hope you’re both doing well…

Hi all, and happy weekend !!!

Harley… I have to tell you something… (and if you think I’m interfering too much PLEASE tell me to stop)… yesterday, when I was kind of bored at work (I was waiting for an always late client), I… suddenly found myself checking out houses in need of renovation… in Ireland… and god, it’s FUN… and there are so MANY of them…

Should I tell you if I see something interesting or should I not interfere, say nothing and stop what I’m doing?

Vi, Serena I’m sure you’re busy, but perhaps a little down too!?…

Don’t hesitate to tell us about it… we’ll try our absolute best to say something smart, interesting, compassionate, comforting and funny (and perhaps radical) to make you feel better…

Oor… we can talk about something else entirely… just pick a subject and we’ll all give our take on it.

Lol, I meant should I tell you if I see some interesting HOUSE on the Internet (but OK, if I see some “future stuff” in my head, I WILL tell you)…

I wasn’t sure if you perhaps would find it stressful/irritating/like I was interfering…

Hello ladies,

Sorry I’ve been MIA. I have missed you guys too. Hugs all round.

I’ve been under the weather, illness acting up a bit, work this week was absolutely manic. Was called in to be the backup on a project and ended having to stay late etc…

Harley, hope the house stuff is moving along. How was your stay in the hotel? I’m sure you loved getting away on your own. Sometimes it’s nice just to pamper ourselves. This fortune teller you went to sounds interesting, I’ve always wanted to go but I think I’m a bit of chicken in that I don’t know that I want to hear stuff bec will that mean I’ll fixate on it and not live with ease. But I am def curious and may try it…maybe being now that I’m older I’m wiser (I hope) and can just listen and absorb.

Maria, I think you’re right I can be picky about guys, my mother tells me I don’t give people a chance. I can easily rule someone out by age, profession, etc. (i.e. don’t like lawyers) without even having met them. I know it’s awful. I just know what I want. I think you’re the same. I do give guys a chance that I’m interested in but am often disappointed and I think that’s my own issue of expectation nothing to do with them. Ahhh…*sighs* You asked where from, Canada.

So it’s interesting that you made mention of being a bit down. So I think I have been given I’ve not been well. Also, I found out last night through a friend that another friend of ours is engaged. I am trying so hard to be happy for her, but I am disappointed by the friendship in that when she was going through some of the toughest stuff of her life me and the another friend (the friend that told me she was engaged) stuck by herself, were her confidents and we really shared a lot. But noticed whenever she got a bf she was totally consumed. Which to some degree is natural you’re getting to know someone and you want to spend time with that person. But it was more that she wasn’t even bothering to find out how we were doing. And she found out I was ill and made one attempt to see me, which I now feel was out of obligation bec another friend had told her I wasn’t doing too well. She has just sort of forgotten her single friends and was doing things with her couples friends. Now the thing that makes me even more sad is that she didn’t tell me she was engaged I found out through my other friend. The engaged friend has been trying to reach our other friend for a week to tell her. And hasn’t even bothered to say how are you to me. Next week she is having a going away do for her bf (now fiance) as he is off to another country for a year. I was invited to this in a mass email that was a save the date. I didn’t reply to it since it was just a save the date. Anyway, I know this is really silly, and we’re all adults but it’s hurtful too when you’re always there for someone and now all of sudden I don’t really exist. I haven’t been in touch with her much bec I haven’t been well. I’ve sort of been keeping to myself and she also doesn’t know anything about my situation with dude. She never knew about him. Maybe she feels I was hiding something I don’t know. So I’m happy that she is engaged but sad, and I do wonder when it will be my turn. She was only dating him for 7-8 months.

So Maria any readings you’ve got for me…? Let me have.

What have you ladies been up to aside from what’s been posted? Any thing exciting happening?

Vi – you ok? <3.

Hi Serena, GREAT to have you back. Sorry to hear you have been under the weather. I know it’s hard to hear of engaged friends.. but it happens. SHE is BEING AN ASS OF A FRIEND THOUGH.. SHE’LL NEED YOU WHEN THINGS TURN SOUR !.. AS THEY DO ! I near have No single mates to go out with so I hang out with married lads.. pretending to be single in the pub.. sad ! it has to get better. I talk to loads of people walking now !

Fortune teller was great, and stay in hotel.. fantastic. I got hom eto my son acting like my mum” next time you stay out overnight would you please let me know” was what he said to me !

househunting.. wreaking my head. I have driven round half of Ireland ! one other person is interested in this house in Wexford…so I hope I outbid them ! It’s a big town/tiny city but has a good atmosphere from what I have been told. Plenty of bikers !

Realitically.. will take 5 yrs before house is up on running. But.. I can live with that ! Am off to have a look at it tomorrow to see if it is halfway decent !

It’s NOT normal practice to put offer on house you haven’t seen… but small, cheap houses are FLYING off the shelf here. I must have put offers on 20 so far.. all already taken off the market. So.. I have resorted to doing this. NOTHING is legal until I sign papers and pay the LAST bit of money over .. which normally takles 6-12 weeks, so I can pull out at anytime.

From building my last house I know my budget to renovate it shall be 60k.. which I will get together over 4-5 yrs.. in meantime I stay part-time with my sister and camp out in summer…. I NEVER do anything the logical way round.

I will apply to transfer my job.. which teh bosses will help me with. Really.. I’m just “winging” it as I go along.. I have too little money to do it any other way ! Anyway.. I may be outbid on this house.. or it may look crap !. I will drive down tomorrow I think.

9 weeks till Germany . WAYHEH ! It’s his birthday in 3 so I shall FB his timeline. I like him I would like more with him but thank god I am not obsessing, snooping online, blowing up his phone, or even sleepless night. I am perfectly relaxed about him. it’s all in the hands of faith.

This is all a brand new start. I don’t know anyone.. but stuff like that never bothers me.. I just start talking and make people talk back ! the hsoue wil not be liveable for ages so I shall just spend weekends therer, working on the garden… IF I GET IT !

It has good transport routes to dublin and home, close to ferries for abroad and lots of my Departments offices in a 30 mile radius. maybe I shall not like the area tomorrow !

Good luck with with the offer on the house Harley!!

Hi Maria…

I live in Madison, Wisconsin, USA. It’s in a medium sized city, the capital city of the state. There is a big university here, many beautiful lakes, farm lands outside of town. I work for the government, and I live in a townhouse, with my 21 year old daughter.

Just general, although I’d like to know if I am headed in the right direction, and please, I know it takes energy to do these things, my friend does Tarot readings, and he can get quite exhausted sometimes. If it ever feels right, and there is the time, that would be cool.

It’d be soo fun to check it out on the Internet…

I can’t find any houses that fit your description in Wellingtonbridge though… is the ad still up or have they taken it down?

Thanks Ann!

I said Wexford a few pages back! Totally see you there Harley.

Soooo – HELLOOOO ladies! I didn’t even realise I’ve been MIA – the days have gone quickly. I have to catch up with all your posts but first I’ll just fill you in on me…

Well, ever since I started listening to the Secret, I’ve been in amazing form. The whole concept has allowed me to wipe the slate clean. I realise now that depression was my choice, as were all the things that happened to me in my life… I attracted them all because I didn’t love myself enough.

Since I’ve opened myself up to this information, so many “coincidences” have happened. I’m consciously magnetising experiences to me at an accelerated rate. It’s really amazing, and in addition – everyone is suddenly showering me with love!

One thing that really struck me from the audio book was this story about a man who wanted a relationship, but he kept on being rejected. Interestingly, he had many pictures in his house of aloof, rejecting women. Even though he wanted a relationship, the images he was surrounding himself with were negative, and that was the experience he was attracting into his life.

After I heard this, I looked around my own room. I have A LOT of art, and I was shocked when I realised the dominant theme. ALL my art is of women – by themselves, looking tragic and isolated. Woah. It was such an eye opener.

I immediately changed a lot of the images I surrounded myself with. Now I’ve got romantic pictures, funny pictures, images of friendship. I also decluttered my desk and wardrobes, and the whole vibe of my room is now really positive. I can’t believe I had such depressing images surrounding me for so long.

I also went through my clothes, and got rid of anything that was a little shabby. I have this attitude now that I deserve to be clad in beautiful clothes all the time.

Sooo, that’s me! Going to read the rest of your updates now. Happy to reconnect with you all! <3

PS. Welcome to the thread Ann!