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Hi all.. Wexford a washout . It WAS Taghmon Maria.. but house too run down and cost too much to renovate.

2 have come up in Cavan so will put offers on them Monday.

But I enjoyed the spin.

WOW Vi.. WHAT a transformation in you. Good idea moving all around in your room. keep up the good work.

I put 2 offers on houses in Cavan.. 1 hr from work and home.. so … commutable. I will hear back next thurs or so………….. MAYBE… I’m not meant to get a house here… maybe I should just run off to Germany. ha ha ha.

I hope everyone is having a good weekend. I just spent mine househunting… met a few good looking guys on the way !

Happy, happy morning everyone !

Maria,I had thought of waiting for Germany, BUT then I thought.. I WANT to be independent with my own base here.. in case things went pearshape, it is an investment in the future for my son.. for him to have something to sell/live in after I am gone. To be used as a hoiday home.. or I can always sell it.

Anyway. it woudl take several months to organise a move to another country IF.. it were to be a possibility. I would rather play it safe.. do an LDR for a few mths, give him time to sort his marriage out, see re work, somewhere to live, THEN move.

I would NOT move JUST for a man.. it would be for a whole new experience .. he would be icing on the cake !

Hi girlies,

Missed you guys. I spent the weekend with family. And crossed off one of my wish list items. Was so excited. :)

I’m going to post twice as I’m reading on this page then will post again once I’ve read the rest. I’m a bit behind as you can tell.

Harls, makes sense. I didn’t think it was common practice to put in an offer without seeing a property first, but can understand if things are moving quickly. I think that this is so exciting and perhaps the fresh start you need. :)

You have a great attitude toward things with the German too. You seem much more happy and at ease with things.

Welcome Ann…hope things are going well for you too. :)

Maria, it’s exactly that the arrogance and know-it-all attitude that irks me time and time again.
How was your crawfish party? What exactly do you do there? Is it similar to a calm bake?

Regarding my friend, I can see a bit of selfishness there and I have always believed there is a bit selfishness too her. I attributed it to middle child syndrome. I’ve known her for years but just accepted that’s the way she was/is. But now it’s just really bothering me. I don’t know if it’s bec I’m envious that she is engaged so I’m trying to find fault in things I accepted in the past. Even though it did bug me before that she was like this. She has treated me and another friend really poorly as of the last year. So my dilemma is do I go to the farewell party? Or when the email comes with the details just tell her how I feel like I don’t feel think she’s been a good friend to me lately when I needed her, yet when she needed me I was there at the drop of a hat and to top it off I heard about her engagement from a friend…and not from her which was hurtful. What do you ladies think?

Completely get you regarding the medium prophecies. I think I’m just looking for anything related to career, relationships, health, life in general. I don’t know if that’s too much or not enough detail. I’m in Toronto if that helps you too.

Hi Vi… glad to hear all is good.. and still so since i posted earlier today !

Maria.. yes I can pull down a house and renovate…. trouble is.. I have NO money left after I buy a house. I am off to Cork on Sat to view a house there. Someone else has a bid on it so I will probably get outbid !

Serena… I hope you feel better. re friend and party…I would do what SUITS YOU ! If.. you do not go… you have burnt all your bridges with her and the friendship is over… you could say you are ill/have another event and just send a present. If you do go… stay a reasonable amount of time, then LEAVE. yes.. time shall tell with me and a house. In 2 weekends i have been around half of my country !

WHAT IS A VISION BOARD ???? HOW DO I DO ONE ??? MENTALLY OR ON PAPER ????

Hello beauties <3

Thank you for all the warm vibes! Yes, it’s been a big change. In a way I hate to say it…but yes… depression is all in your head. What a terrible disease. I’ve actually sent my mum “The Secret” and sent my dad a book that inspired the writer of “The Secret”! Haha, that’s me when I get into something – I spread the word ;)

I’m going through a transformation with it now – I’m realising that the art of manifestation is not caring. You request, and then forget about it. The most important thing is filling yourself up with love every day… because otherwise you don’t attract good things into your life. If you love yourself, loving situations follow.

But Love is a full time job :) It’s sooo easy to become unconsciously stressed and worn out. Today I was aware I was feeling a bit negative, and then I sat in a cafe for 30 mins and just watched the world go by. It was so meditative and it made me realise how stressed I’d been. I felt amazing afterwards. It’s odd which things will fill you up!

Serena, regarding your friend situation… Do you actually want to be friends with her? If not… then don’t go. You owe her nothing… and there’s no need to feel obligated or guilty. She’s putting herself first, it is wrong for you to do the same?

I understand the feeling of “when will it be my turn”. All I can say is… I truly believe now that my beliefs have shaped my current reality, and that I haven’t met someone purely because I believed that I would be alone forever. That belief became true – and I know that when I change it, I will meet the right man. I would encourage you to do a little digging and see what belief you have that is limiting you <3

Maria, tell us more about you! I hardly know anything. Have you been in a relationship recently? Are you living alone or with friends?

Harley… maybe you need to take a few days off the house hunting? It sounds like you might burn yourself out if you keep going the way you’re going. Btw, put a picture as the screensaver of your phone works well as a vision board :) And it ALWAYS works for me – anytime I put a country on there, I ALWAYS end up visiting it. I currently have a picture of thousands of dollars on it. I’ll let you know when I win the lotto :) ;)

…her face-to-face and I WOULDN’T want to go…*

Ooh…I DO vision boards in my head ALL the time ! No surprises there then. But o will look up the link thanks. I have not even got round to THE SECRET yet…but I will.

I would prefer to talk to a friend in person if I have to say serious stuff. ..I think an email can be cold and taken up the wrong way….u a friend sent me an email re problems with me.. I could just get annoyed…say ‘feck you ‘ and not reply. …i reply too harsh .

Ann. …We love you too. How is the dating going ???

In person. …you get to read the ‘real emotions ‘and realise you are really hurting someone or they realise how upset you are.

Hi Vi.. I am enjoying the house hunting.. even if a bit stressful . I LOVE gallivanting all over the country. I really DO need to buy somewhere soon so taking time out is not really an option.

YOUR new VIBE is AWESOME. It really does make a difference. I did all this after my sister died and again after I sold my house. The transformation in you will continue to be AMAZING.

I tried acupunture for my bad back. I went in with an OK vibe, but I LOVED it. It really helped. The downside was that I felt when I STOPPED the treatment, my aches came back. Since I started walking.. my back is 10 times better ! I have not tried any other treatments.

Serena.. I agree a LOT wit what Vi says about your friend. I tend to let people “go/slide” that no longer “give” to me in my life. I have enough friends to waste time on “friends” that have now become “acquaintances”.

Ha.. Frank is already on my screensaver !!!! I will work on the rest. Thanks for the great tips !

And yes.. it CAN be hard to keep self-love up and do it every day.. but it REALLY makes a difference to how we approach each day I believe.

Yes Maria.. tell us ALL about crawfish party !

Ann.. tell us some news !

YAY :) He has blondy-brown hair Maria.

Thanks, I will tell my friend that.

Harley, that’s great you’re enjoying it! Why don’t you put a picture of your dream house on your computer desktop? Im glad about your back! I personally think everyone should do yoga as well… I can’t get over how much it has transformed my body.

Good Morning Ladies,

Ann – what’s going on with you? How was your weekend?

Harley – I’m in agreement with you regarding the email, having thought about it some more. I won’t send an email like that. It’s hard to move past things sometimes when you can’t hear/sense tone. It may be misconstrued and taken the wrong way all together.

However, I have decided to take the route of not doing or saying anything. I agree with Vi – I can totally see how it’s the victim mentality and I don’t want that. I want to surround myself with positive people who care about my wellbeing as I would about theirs not ppl who only reach out bec they need something or need a shoulder.

Vi – Will def let you know about the acupuncturist and how that goes. I don’t know him and he asked if I wanted treatment and I said I will come for a consult first. I’d like to get a vibe and see what he says before I commit to treatments with him.

My RMT does reiki but I’ve not tried it. Agree with Maria’s way of getting out of it.

Harley – I wish I could go gallivanting around the country. :) Sounds like even though you’re not finding a place you’re experiencing your own country in way you never would have.

Maria – wow that’s amazing, with such detail in Vi’s reading. Interested to hear Vi on what you’ve said. Can’t wait for my reading now. :)

Hi Ladies,

How are you? Vi, Maria, Serena, Harley, Ann :) … I’ve been sooooooooooo busy. School started today and I don’t know if it will get busier or less busy :)

Maria – Where is Tams? I miss her :(

Meeting FWB today after 2 months since I broke it off. I don’t know whether the meeting will be good or awkward. He is a very sweet guy just not a “relationship” guy.

Serena/Maria – funny about lawyers LOL. My cousin is a lawyer and he is really nice. May be the exception?? IDK :)

Have a great day ladies!!!

Hi all… I think WE are ALL learning to let toxic things GO ! The freedom and relief and pride in myself doing it IS AMAZING !

It’s getting easier to say “NO”.

Sherri.. good luck with FBW.. listen to what he says. YOU .. will either know or NOT if you want to go back ther… I bet you don’t !.. AND HE DOES.. ha ha ha.

Must be sad sending them back to school !.. or peace and quiet ! ha ha ha !