Nothing ever happens

Lol yes maybe not so like Lisbeth in her violent ways but all the good stuff. ;)

Thanks for the book suggestion Maria, I’ll try and get my hands on a copy. I’ve come to like Swedish authors.

Sherri, I’m doing alright. I’m content with life but I do know I want things to change/improve in my life and I’m the only person that can make that happen.

Good news about your FWB, it’s kinda cool that things can get back to normal. And you can enjoy each other’s company again and it not be awkward. :)

Oh, regarding the tatt – I’m drawn to sacred geometry tattoos, but also more abstract ones with watercolour effects. They are completely opposing styles, so I’m not sure how I can marry them! Hence all the research… and I want to find the right tattooist as well. I feel like I need to be tattooed by someone spiritual (spiritual in the same way as me).

Hello Hunnies!

The sun is shining and the birds are singing and… new guy is taking up a lot of space in my head (it has been a while since last time a guy did that to me), and I LOVE it…

Serena, bit by bit your life (and health) will change and improve, I’m sure of it <3

Harley, your news are never boring… If you can’t find a house with potential, you could always (like you mentioned earlier), buy a piece of land in a great area and put a motorhome on it…

Sherri, I love your “divas”, we should use that more often in here… I read a book once about embracing your inner goddess… and I totally agreed with every word in it… It sounds like you’re “getting along” really well with your FWB… I’m happy for you :-D

Ann, yes, stay away from gambler guy (I don’t even have to focus to see that he’s toxic)…

Vi, well, I have expressed doubts regarding The Secret earlier and I stand by my words.

I think maybe the key is to not force the thinking – just think happy thoughts when you feel like it, and not because you believe you “have to” in order to achieve improvement in your life (emotional life and life in general).

Great that you sleep better now though. It could be because of The Secret, and it could be because of something else… You have been feeling happier lately, and happiness definitely affects our hormones, and hormones affect our sleep…

As for light and darkess and the balance between them, some of the most beautiful (and true) words that have been said about it is IMO something Leonard Cohen said in one of his songs – “There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in”. Soo simple, beautiful and true…

Tattoos – I checked out the sacred ones, and they are beautiful. I especially like the ones with triangles… the triangle is such a powerful, magical and strong symbol (and it’s time we reclaim it from the Illuminati).

I like the idea of softening it up with watercolors. How big is it gonna be, and where will you put it?

A great day and lots of <3 to all of you!

Hey sweet hearts <3

Today was a great day in London :) Worked, went to a nice yoga class, then went to a friend’s birthday and stuffed myself with macaroons and green tea all day, then met another friend for dinner and wine… I feel stuffed :P

Maria, Leonard Cohen is my hero! I adore that man. Yeah, I’m trying to find the balance between thinking positively and white knuckling it. My friend who I went to dinner with is a really positive person, and I see how her positivity naturally flows from her, whereas for me it’s still a process of retraining myself to think differently. I know the next step is not to be so effected by other people’s actions.

Hope you’re feeling better Harley!

In other news, I can barely believe it, but S contacted me AGAIN today, asking me to meet him. It’s just comical at this stage… :P

Ha ha, that’s why I asked where will you place it… cause they are so BIG.

Love runes are really cool. Do you have any particular in mind? I mean what do you want it to symbolize?

Love your attitude re S.

As for Sephora stores, I’m not sure but it seems there aren’t any in the UK anymore :( …

Harl, hope you’re feeling better… and that you’re good too Serena.

I won’t be seeing new guy this weekend. I talked to my dad and he said first boat pulling out day is next Saturday.

Happy Friday ALL <3

I’ll check out the “women” love rune. Is it a viking or high elf (or some other) kind of rune?

No party plans this weekend so far…

I have a walk date tomorrow with a friend, which means that we go for a looong walk with her dog and talk a lot.

I’m sure there will be some lovely shopping… and cleaning of the apartment too…

and I will probably check out new guy’s videos 10 times or more… sigh… 26 going on 16.

Is S stup? Yes, he is! You’re not even thinking of seeing him are you!!?

What are YOUR plans for the weekend (Vi, and everyone else)?

Haha, noooo. I’m not replying to that text message. Funny how a month ago him texting me sent me into a terrible headspace… now I’m rolling my eyes :P I’m happy that I’m making progress :) I want to move beyond this though… I learned a lot from the experience and I hope I’ll start to appreciate that soon, and forget the negative stuff.

Maria, sounds like a nice, chilled weekend. Do you work full time over the week?

I’m teaching yoga tonight, then again at 9am tomorrow morning, then going to my favourite ashtanga class (and hopefully conversation to the next level with the cute guy ;)), then going to a women’s yoga circle on Saturday night. Sunday will to yoga, go for coffee and just get out of the house :P

BTW – happy anniversary girls! This thread has now been running for a month :) <3

Hi all… I am feeling MUCh better. back on top form ! More onlne hsouehuntng.

That’s MAD re S Vi..comical as you say. Funny how we see them for the asses they are NOW. OF course he’ll keep chasing you. just stick to your guns and boundaries. when He FINALLy gets it through his thick skull he lost you.. or finds another willing girl.. this current one, don’t sound like it,he will move on and leave you alone.

maybe you should consider moving job location as well as house !

Tattoos.. great. I liek small ones. .that can be hidden or showm depending on wht you wear.

Maria, Ann, Serena, Vi.. have a GREAT weekend. I spoke to Gibson last night. She is just chilling, relaxing, busy in her job. I told her we all missed her on here !

Yes.. I will tell her. she’s busy dancing her ass off these days !

Great to hear you have different irons in the fire. Shame YOU won’t meet Island guy this weekend. BUT.. if it’s meant to be !

Vi.. will fade away with all this yoga.. or else turn into a cat burglar and we can have Sherry remake “to catch a thief”.

OOOH.. he’s not for you longterm so ! A nice fling will do grand !

Gibson said to say a BIG HI back to you as well, and the others.

CATWOMAN sounds better. I love the idea of the rune tattoo.

I decided to be proactive and write to Michael O’leary( CEO Ryanair.. airport in Germany beside my mates) seeking a job. Probably nothing will come of it, or his PA will refer me to a crap website with NO vacancies. But.. no harm in asking. HE hates Civil Servants though ! He can only say “NO”.

Hello Divas …. GM

I was chatting with a guy yesterday online and it was a really interesting conversation. He gives a lecture in the University every week to couples about how to communicate more effectively in the bedroom. It was quite an enlightening conversation. Its funny how I find these guys online on a dating site and we have really interesting conversations ……

Haha! And I went to Yoga today too ;)

I’ll go with Catwoman :) It’s incredible actually – just over a month ago my body changed, and now I have the “yoga body”. I never imagined it would happen to me, but it did. The great thing is that I’m eating a ton, and I just seem to be staying the same or getting even leaning out more…

It’s so nice… because compared to dieting, I know that this body is for keeps. Yoga is an integral part of my life; not something I have to stick to.

I’m actually pretty quiet with work this week, so am spending a few hours a day researching the tattoos. It feels like the right time to get them done. Oh, did I mention I’m getting four?!

Harley, Serena, Sherri – weekend plans?

xxx

I had a date tonight but he cancelled yesterday as he has been asked to work late … so today I plan to take my mom to a sex shop (she has never been to one) …. hahahaha hopefully she will enter it and not refuse :D

Saturday – I am spending the day at my aunt’s place as I have some work with her and then in the evening I have a date with another guy.

Sunday – Morning with sister at the flea market and afternoon a coffee date. I am looking forward to this date as he was quite fun on the phone.