Nothing ever happens

Yup… I feel very sorry for her… but I am NOT going back there. it was crazy. Some problems are beyond this forum.

To be honest, I don’t think anabella is Kay. Kay wouldn’t repeat her entire story, change it in some ways, use a new name and think we wouldn’t recognize her… she’s smarter than that…

I think anabella is the girl who posted a similar story almost at the same time as Kay posted hers (in April/May).

Orlando, I do miss him… but I’m totally OK with it… I’m used to not seeing the guy I’m “with” on a regular basis… and I actually like getting to know him over the phone… I find it easier to listen to and hear what he says when I’m not distracted by his appearance… plus, the more you miss someone the sweeter and more intense the reunion will be…

The house, if you change your mind/find another house you like better, will you get the deposit back?

Red, you should check out Dain Heer… he looks a lot like Sullivan Stapleton (he’s a chiropractor/healer/speaker)… and I agree about how a man moves … it can totally turn me on or off in a second…

Happy October and Hump Day all!

Great news Sherri.. we all spend so much time worrying over nothing sometimes.
Harley.. the wait must be horrible. Also wanted to say how great you looked in birthday party pics!

Maria, you are so good about not seeing your guy. I know it is early, but I get so idgy when J and I do not see each other. I have such a busy life, but when we are together.. even if casually with my kid, I am so much calmer and settled. Hard to describe.

2.5 days here and counting! Stress is slowly slipping away.

Amazing fall weather here.. date night tonight and .. one year anniversary this weekend! J has no extra cash, but will get him a card and write a note. No big plans but so glad it fell on a “non-mom” weekend!

Thanks for the compliments Celeste. Come Friday. ..you will get thrashed !!! I met a cool guy on my walks this morn.i see him now and then. But…He smokes.yuk.still !!! He said a big hello so I asked him about his dog. I have by no means forgotten Frank…but I am doing my best to move on.

Maria. ..The waiting is torture. ..just keep busy.

I try to not think about house…I will not believe it is mine till keys are in my hand

Happy 1st anniversary celebrations the weekend.

I LOVE silver linings. I’m losing the run of myself this week…….. I just sent a message to an IRISH guy…. IN IRELAND, SHOCK HORROR, on POF.

Will see if he replies. He doesn’t be on site much. So.. I AM trying girls !

I hate eHarmony it is the worst site I have ever seen.
I haven’t tried POF or OkCupid. But Match was a good one I enjoyed that one. They all seem so expensive though.

OKC is free here. I did not find Match worth the $ but did meet two nice guys.. met J and two others on OKC. Agree Mel.. pardon if my politics are showing, but eHarmony was way too right wing for me. I have a GF who is agnostic and they found her NO matches.. really???

Yeah eharmony was total BS. They couldn’t find any matches for me either unless they were 1000 miles away and I was like really?!? That isn’t a match if I have to take a plane to see them give me a break. Most of the guys on there I just wanted to punch in the nose anyway, they don’t have a good match up system and you cant even browse their site.

How does Tinder work?? Esp wonder when all the girls come here talking about it.

Celeste, yes I am good at not seeing him… probably because I’m used to the “situation”, and because I like space and have no problem filling my life and time with activities, friends and alone time… so much so that the opposite (if he called 3 times a day and wanted to see me a lot) would make me freak and run…

Harl, I too prefer meeting guys in real life… to be honest I haven’t even tried online dating… perhaps I will one day… the Irish guy… may be something… keep us updated…

Sherri, I think your sex drive is dipping because sex is no longer a “new found interest” to you… what you need now is to find someone you’re REALLY attracted to, and it will go up again…

Orlando is hot guy… cause he kind of looks like O. Bloom…

Mel, yes, experience is what moves us forwards and upwards… and it’s also what makes people interesting (and attractive) IMO.

Tinder is a phone app (connected to FB), that connects you with a lot of weird and a few normal people in your area. If you give a guy’s profile pic a greeen heart and he gives you a heart too, you’re a match and can start chatting…

Maria – I think you have some truth to what you are saying. As previously when I was with my fwb I was so addicted that once we were done I was just thinking of when I could get him to work on me again. Now it more like …. oh that was nice. I will msg you which day I am free next week and you let me know. Also next week I am only free on Tuesday before my parents are back and so I told him that. And in my mind I was like if not then, then when my parents leave. So it was not like OMG I need it or something. Also on another note I am wondering if I am slowly mentally getting ready to be in a relationship.

For sometime now I have been thinking of creating an account on POF. Last year when I tried to create it like 3 times, the website did not allow me. God knows what was up with that. But I am procrastinating as I am not sure if I want to or not. I may go on match on their free weekends deal (whenever they have it) as I don’t have the dough to spend paying. And you cant really message a person if you are not a paid member right? Anyone do lavalife or anything??

One of the ladies who is in the same meetup group as me tells us not to go to a particular local dating agency. As they match her with such wierdos who don’t have anything in common with her. She is like what we have in common is that we both breathe and they match us up. But on the other hand she is quite negative though hilarious in her talks so don’t know if she attracts that kind of guys either. The dancing meet up which I go to and totally love, she was talking crap about them and I put her in her place by saying … it all depends on your attitude. If you want to have fun you will. But if you expect people to come and entertain you then you wont.

The Sunday guy cancelled on me. That’s good it happened now and not after I spent time meeting him I say :)

Celeste, what you have with J sounds really healthy… and when you are totally calm and comfortable in a guy’s presence and enjoy doing “nothing” with him, then you know for sure it’s love…

To be honest… he’s even hotter than Bloom, and more masculine too… at least in my opinion…

Tinder… to me it seems half of the people on there are there ironically, and the other half… well, a lot of them are definitely the Jersey Shore wannabe type…

And ha, I was picturing your boss as Cruella de Ville…

Sherri, sorry Sunday guy cancelled, but knowing you, I’m sure you have plenty of other options…