Nothing ever happens

Btw ladies today is my “hump” day and tomorrow my parents are back till they fly out. So totally putting FWB and “Ted” to lots of use today.

On another note – yeah, cancellation guy has been in touch so brownie points in his favour. I am just not sure if he is a guy I would be attracted to. But I always try to meet if the guys pass my RED flags test. As I have been really surprised at the guys that do attract me and the ones that don’t. And he is 5″11 so that’s in his favour.

Two other guys have been in touch. – Both live a bit too far for me and so I am not so sure. Lets see if they can make the effort to come to me to meet else they are out. One guy is 47 years (12 years older than me) and I have never gone as high as that but he seems interesting so just chatting for now.

Just heard from Harley….he showed up, he is lively and lovely, but she’s not attracted to him.
I’m sure she’ll us in with more details when it’s done.

I know you all understand what I meant, but I HATE typos. lol. I meant to say she Will fill us in later. lol. Good grief.

Harley, did you flat out say “I don’t fancy you?” That takes balls!!

What’s up hot guys n boring conversations today?? Two guys chatting me up online. Both hot looking. Both really boring at chatting. One guy asks me to ask him questions n answers in one word answers. Told him looking for guys whom I can converse with not guys looking or an interview n giving one word answers. Don’t think we are compatible. All the best in your search.

The other guy started interesting and now has turned boring. And he is a model. Wth is going on??

Both really hot guys. What a waste!!!

Harl, sorry the guy wasn’t a keeper, still I hope you found the whole thing interesting… as an experience… and if nothing else you got to get out and wear your dress, and that’s a good thing, right!!?

Celeste, I’m glad your new job is looking positive… and something else entirely – you said earlier that your taste in music is from another era, I’m curious, what is your taste in music!??

Hottie, yeah, I’m really looking forward to seeing him… this is what it’s gonna be all the time though, cause this is what his life looks like… I’m just gonna go with the flow and enjoy our time together for what it is (regardless of what it is or will be). He comes home Saturday night and I actually have plans with friends for Sat night, so he’s either gonna have to join us, or make plans for me and him for Sunday if he wants to see me…

Re guys being lazy, they are programmed to give as little as possible to get as much as possible… most (or should I say “some”? or “a few”?) guys put in extra effort when they really want something though… and the ones who don’t… well, they will never be winners in love or life, will they!!?

Harley,
Dating for me was as much about finding out what I DID not want with a man as to what I did. I dated a few nice guys who where boring as crap!
Tying this to anther post.. so many LAZY guys too.
That is what hooked me about J. He was not a lazy boy, and kept me on my toes keeps me on my toes. He still makes me laugh everyday and makes me reach mentally, emotionally, etc.
There are very few people with whom I have that kind of connection in my life.

Sherri.. it is good you have a comfortable place to be in now.. you will know when you are ready for more and the man is right.

Maria.. I love all types of music but love rockabilly, good funk, early R&B, gritty early rock, down home bluegrass. I do like some new alternative that my son has introduced me too, but classic stuff you can find on old vinyl is where I am happiest.
Oh and at this time of year, an amazing polka is fun too!

Still fighting cold, but it is HUMP day in more way than one.

Happy day ladies.

Raven…you are completely perverted. I love it.now…I just gotta find a decent guy to have a polka with !!

Celelste … We’re Blues, Rock & Roll, Funk & anything else on a dare!

TO HELL with R u l e s R e v i s i t e d. Hotness doesn’t automatically go down after the 20s. It all depends on genes/how well you age and how well you take care of yourself… I know A LOT of peole that look better now in their 30s than they did in their 20s… and look at all those reunion TV shows… like 95% in those look better now than they did 10 years ago…

Interesting to hear about your taste in music Celeste… I too like many different types… soul, r&b, hiphop, house, dance, rock, pop, old music, new music, jazz, blues, and folk music too. What matters most to me is the voice… I like natural (not too trained) voices with an attitude and lots of expression… voices that “crack” in all the right places. The lyrics matter a lot as well, and it’s always a plus if the one who sings is the one who wrote the song… I love music, I have been singing in choirs for years… I’m no superstar at singing but nonetheless I love it passionately…

I hope you all are doing good… and are looking forward to the weekend… I know I am <3

And seriously, we can’t even mention other websites now!!!!!!!!! This must be the only forum in the world that has that restriction, and it PISSES ME OFF… fucking North Korea is less restricted than this place…

I was just discussing with my friend yesterday as to how I totally love my freedom. My meet up groups, my dates, my FWNBs etc and how I am like a guy who will only give it up if they find the person worth giving it up for. And then I read that article and it got me kind of down. Its not that I believed it 100% but I was wondering if there was some truth in it.

I also do not even message guys who are less than 30 years as I find them really really immature. I remember once telling a guy last year to grow up and stop being so high school immature. And I think he was 26 years LOL

This is the 1st time I went to that website as a lot of women here quote it. I had some time to kill (not touching the annulment forms yet – don’t want to spoil my thanksgiving) and decided to check it out. And it got me feeling so low.

On another note, I find it amusing that guys in North America who are in their 30s have so much variety. Because from what I remember in India, if a guy is still single when he is in his mid to late 30s, he is kind of considered on the shelf RFOL.

Sherri…I was 34 when my husband left me, and my kids were 12, 7, and 5. Ignoring the fact that I did EVERYTHING WRONG when it came to getting back out there, ie. too soon, no personal checklist, desperate for male attention to make me feel validated as a desirable woman, I had a HELL of a time finding a man who was willing to get in a REAL relationship with me b/c of my kids.
Looking back now, I am grateful(?) for that, b/c I personally had sooooooooo much work to do on myself before I was even ready to think about being in a serious relationship again. I think to myself every once in a while, damn, I’m 40 now, my chance was when I was younger!! But truthfully, I am in such a better place mentally and emotionally now….and I feel like physically I LOOK better than I did. My confidence in myself and what I want from a man has evolved a LOT. :) The right man won’t care how old you are. At least, that’s what I keep telling myself. lol

XOXOXOXOXO