Nothing ever happens

Did you get it for the price you offered or you had to increase the price? Wow that’s a lot of work to put in. May be walker will help ;) … also put on POF and take any and all dates to help so that they can also use the opportunity to show off their handiness and muscles ;)

Harls.. Ann.. thanks so much. Ann still praying for you.
Harls.. belt was pretty tight before. I have a small savings but won’t last long. Talking to lswyer about pushing support from ex. Will mean stress for Luke but need that cushion. Also called realtor about selling house. Rent 8s not cheap but no taxes.. up keep. . And smaller utility bills.

Hey girlies!

I too had a quiet weekend… I still have Yaya (the chihuahua) and that kind of affects everything I do… it’s fun though, she’s a little magnet… to teenage girls… so I’m totally bonding with 10 of those a day… not sure if that’s good or bad…

Thanks Ann… your pic being sideways… it has to do with what type of camera you used and also your browser. Photoshop should turn the pic automatically… you can also try to right click on it and choose rotate (and save), either where you have it stored or go into Gravatar and do it in there (might not work).

Harl, sooon the house and keys will be yours… I actually remember what it looks like… white with black “patterns”… and a proper roof… it looked quite OK IMO… your 5 yr plan sounds solid… Stalin would have been proud…

Sherri, I knew you had it under control… I see a huge positive change in you… not so long ago you were afraid of sex and knew very little about guys… and look at you now… you’re confident and know a lot… that’s great progress IMO…

Celeste, stay strong… you’ll get through it all… I know you will. Both you and Ann are in my thoughts and I so hope and wish for positive changes in your lives… hugs <3

Hey ladies,

So guess what 38 year old replied to the message with a very general message as to what he did on the weekend. Funnily enough that did not send me to crazyville again. I replied to it saying see u on Friday (as we are both going to be going for a meet up on Friday). I am surprised because just last week I was so anxious to hear from him. Hmmmm wondering if it was that time of the month when I was ovulating or something that sent me to crazyville ;)

The date last night while pleasant, I do not see myself with him in any relationship. So he messaged me last night that he would like to meet again and I replied that I do not see a future with us and all the best in his search. He is a nice guy but not really for me. Its funny how many nice guys are out there on these sites that I find but some of the women come here saying that only crazies are out there. Wonder why???

The meet up I went to with my sister in the evening and had a great time. Learnt 3 new board games. This is a meet up that I see myself going to for may be once a month or two not every week. But its good to know that it is available and the people seem pleasant.

I have a date today evening with the guy who has been wanting to meet me since 2 weeks. He had to cancel once due to work. I decided to meet him just to see if anything is there. But if he has to cancel today then I am done.

This weekend seems to be busy. Friday meet up group, Saturday meeting with one of my FWNBs, Sunday lunch with FWB and his friends and then later just him and me. And of course not to forget dinner tomorrow with my “Mom’s” group :D

Life is fun :D

Ann – praying for you. Take all the support you can get from Normal guy. You deserve it.

Celeste – Def take ex to the court to get your due. Do you really need a lawyer for that? Can you do it by yourself?

Harley – may be you can start an interior decorating consulting business and charge a small fee (much less than the interior decorators). That way you will get clients and be able to exercise your hobby. And totally get some guys to help you. Werent you talking about a taxi stand you pass by or construction workers or something?

Today is Vi’s birthday – Happy birthday VIOLET!!!

Hey girls, I’m out on date number 4 tonight!

My motivation has stuck and I decorated room number 4 this last weekend! Hmm, which room next….

This week I’ve been supporting a friend.

My beautiful male friend, singer guy, is so unhappy right now. I’ve been his shoulder to cry on and have seen him 5 days out of 10, with contact everyday too.

He’s confided in me, and only me, about his current situation. He’s so different to any other guys.

Whereas on here we’re told guys aren’t texters, guys pull back from emotions and feelings, this guy is the opposite.

After his latest relationship failed this week, he entrusted me to look after his phone for a week so he couldn’t make contact. He wanted me to read their text messages and give him my opinion. And if any texts came in while the phone was in my care, he wanted me to read them. Now thats trust dont you think!

He is so deep. I’ve never seen a man write so much about his feelings and his heart. But she seems to pull back when he gets deep. I can see why some women would freak at his openness, however I know him, and I know this is how he is, and I know he’s not stalker ish or crazy, he’s just a very feeling person.

He cried in my lap yesterday.

I dont even know why I’m writing this. I just dont know how to help him and being the only one who knows his situation I cant talk about it to our other friends.

Every bit of advice I try and give him, sounds like all the advice people keep giving me. Me and him are like the same person! Both too forgiving, both too tolerant, both accept bad behaviour for too long, both go back for more of the same hoping it’ll be different this time. I hear myself telling him to get some self respect, which is exactly what people said to me.

How do I help my broken friend!!!

I’ve said that too him every time she goes cold on him.

She asks for space. He gives it. She ends it. She blocks him. 2 weeks later she’s back, I want u I love you, month later rinse lather repeat…

I’m running out of advice! He’s worse than me for picking bad partners!!

As u say, just be there I suppose. Nothing else I can do. I’m taking him for some healing tomorrow.

(this is the guy I believe is my soulmate. Everyone says we should be together. It just never has happened!)

Ha ha. I’m with the choosing each other !!! hope everyone good today. I’m fine. lashing rain here. picked my Windows up last night and have a horrid cold now. time to self medicate .

mmn…I’ve a feeling the two of them could become totally dependent on each other. ..either a match made in heaven or a disaster. I think he’s another guy that needs fixing and B…doesn’t need to go there again !

Yes he is a man that needs fixing. Friends it is for now.

I’m enjoying my new man too much anyway!

We did the deed last night!!!!!

Well… hip hip hooray !!!

Was it good? Great? Everything you though and hoped it would be? Tell, tell, tell…

Yay BC

My date was good yesterday. I did not really expect it to be. I would like to meet him one more time. But he hasn’t messaged me yet. So lets see :)

Oh yeah Harley…. I am planning to wait it out. I have not gone back to crazyville :D don’t worry ;)