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Hmm… it IS somewhat rough. I’ll tone it down a bit. For starters I’ll change “idiots” to “people” (“I choose to ignore people I don’t like”)…

The thing is though… people are kind of “to the point” on that site (especially in that “state what you don’t like “-section) and a little roughness is no big deal in there… but as said, I’ll tone it down a tad. Thanks.

Helloooooo Ladies!! Sherri – I would just be cautious with M. On the one hand, he says he’s fine with backing off, being friends and no sex stuff…but says he’s deleting whatsapp because you’re the only one he talks to on there. Talking out of both sides of his mouth if you ask me. Keep your options open, enjoy the time with your FWB…and be creative. What have you tried? Are you both pretty adventurous? Willing to try anything? I could get pretty detailed here, but don’t want to make anyone blush! :D

I have a date with K tonight. He texted last night, told me to get some good rest as I would be out late tonight. I think we’ll have a good time.

As for other drama – I posted an update on the “Am I doing all the right things” thread…It got interesting with W last night. I’d love to hear what you ladies think, how I should handle things…

Ooooo….lap dances are fun. Definitely dress the part, heels too. Make sure it’s something you can slip off easily. There’s nothing worse that getting stuck in an outfit while you’re trying to look sexy. Haha! Pick music you know he likes. Totally set the stage (haha) too…lighting and such – make it sultry and sexy. There are NO rules to lap dances. You don’t have to be a pro. Men just like to see you confident enough to put yourself on display, totally for them.

Oh heavens….well let’s see. I’m a fan of ropes (I prefer the soft red variety, looks great against my pale skin). Blindfolds and assorted toys are fun as well…he might enjoy that…you being the one blindfolded – and he with an assortment of toys to choose from. Quite erotic, not knowing what might be coming next…

Maria/Sherri – My only profile right now is on POF. I’ve done the paid sites before, and they can be just as bad as the free sites, re: only hookups.

Two of the men I’m seeing I’ve met on POF, and they’re genuine men. A is the 44 y/o bodybuilder, professional businessman…super sweet and kind. He’s a widowed Christian, volunteers at a local children’s hospital, started a charity in his sister’s name (she passed a couple years ago). Great guy – we’re going to see each other again when I get back into town. K is 41, a high school English teacher and a real estate agent. Father to two boys, 8 & 10 – divorced Christian, super funny – we have similar personalities and senses of humor…

I think any site is what you make of it. And while WHAT you say in your profile is important, there are just as many men who will ONLY look at your picture, send you a message, and only read your profile if you respond to them.

Here’s what mine says:

Georgia girl here…I bless you heart and call ya darlin’. I’m phenomenal in the kitchen, and know how to pick a great bottle of wine. I carry a G27 while wearing 4in heels (I’m 55’11 btw), but I don’t wear heels to the range. I can hang with the guys and dress to the nines. I’m no cardio queen. Real women train, and not with pink weights. Hey, I wanna look good in my yoga pants.

I don’t like to waste time, so I’ll ask important questions up front. I’m a Christian, your faith should be important to you as well. That being said, I won’t consider any type of relationship with a man that’s separated or doesn’t want children. Until I’m married, my daughter comes first. If you’re on the same page with me there, let’s chat.

Had a horrid nights sleep, dreamt of feckin German all the time. Packed a car load of boxes for house move tomorrow………..I do not see it selling in a hurry so shall move stuff there anyway. Will take it as it comes. Came across old photos of Frank etc as I was packing. Imagine 23 yrs old. He hasn’t changed a bit and still wearing the same type of clothes. A bit of a bittersweet moment. Oh well, onwards and upwards !

Hope everyone else doing ok. Ann and Celeste.. lots of hugs, know things are especially hard for you two right now.

Hey y’all! Harley I hope today is a better day. I know it’s tough. I’m sitting at the airport in Dallas. W loves the Dallas Cowboys, so I’m surrounded by stuff that reminds me of him. And I was doing so good! He reached out again yeaterday. I immediately deleted the text without responding.

Ahh well….keep moving forward.

I hear ya Ann. Your head and heart are elsewhere right now. The time with your dad is precious. I know you wont regret it. Hugs to you.

Yep, I a good today all. Motoring forward, inch by inch. Will think about house over next few months.

Ann.. funny how life goes with en. But……………not good timing for starters. Make the most of ALL the time with your dad. We are here anytime you need/want to vent.

Maria… good idea re your profile…………..all fun and games ahead.

Debby……………you sound great. Hope Oklahoma went well/is going well.

No hangover.. wayheh !

Hugs Celeste.

Good idea with doctor………..can’t do no harm.

You and J are good overall right ??? CAN you pinpoint anything EXACTLY ? Or is it just honeymoon period is over/harsh realities/comfortableness of relationship settling in ???

Do you find HIS financial problems VERY draining on you ??? Unfortunately………..they will NOT go away anytime soon I fear ?

Do you feel the relationship is trapped/stuck/not moving forward………..as in you would like to move in together but can’t because of your son/money/pasts etc ??

Harley, I just laughed out loud!

I need help !
He said ” ok, Ill behave, but honesty is the best policy, we are not 18 anymore ”

I replied… nothing wrong with a lot of flirting and fun, I just don’t wish it to be the centre of convo so early on. I hate texting…………….everything gets misconstrued. so you work in agri science…………………govt/civil servant, are yyou a native Dub( dubliner).

DID I DO OK ???????

Ha ha!! You do make me laugh Harley!

Its nipple freezing weather here too!

Certainly sounds like u dodged a sex seeker on Pof. It becomes easy to spot the signs after a while, doesnt it!

Yup. ..NEXT guy ! I’m learning !

Hope things good with you !