Nothing ever happens

Just friended a guy on fb who looked me up. …thinks I’m beautiful and wants an LDR.

oh yeah…..like I believe this. scam artist indeed. .still he’s easy on the eye so I might mess with his head a little bit !…not that the pic us REALLY him of course.

Hals.. you crack me up.
Some guys are such idiots.. let me type 4 words on a screen and of course you will want ot jump me.. ugghh.

As for J and I, frankly things are really ok but I am a bit stalled. However, I need to settle into what we are now as there is nothing that either one of us can do anything about it. Will be interesting to see how things go into next year as son get more independent, starts driving, etc.

I do think that he did feel my funk as we went to the movies with my son and J was more attentive than usual. He is also great with my son.. treat him like a young man and not a kid. He also messaged me a bunch after I got home and told me how he does not know how would ever cope with all he is dealing without me. This man is huge for him as he is not one for empty declarations or grand and gestures. I am feeling more stable, called the Dr. and am putting on the fake it till ya make it hat today!

Debby,
I think you are in a good place and backing off from the drama with W is a good step.I loved this phase of dating and then started narrowing down to a short roster of 2-1.

Ann
Take time off from the dating process if need be. I did that for 4 months before I met J to deal with my oldest’s issues. It allowed me to focus on his health and my own sanity. Thinking of you dear!

HAHA Harley a scam artist. Yeah these guys are so hard to weed out online along with Facebook. You never know their true intentions, and they always seem to be creepy.

Sherri hopefully M steps up, if that is indeed what you are wanting again?

This weekend I was at P’s the whole time Friday through this morning. He got to see my afro and everything, since I slept over at his house this whole weekend. We just were lazy and slept basically the whole weekend lol, but I didn’t have any problems with it. I was tired. We went out to dinner Friday, but that was it.

Now today my anxiety is going haywire, since I haven’t taken my anxiety medicine all weekend. I’m like did he have a good time? and just keep thinking this fruitless thoughts right now, but I took my medicine, so those should decrease here soon enough, I hope.

Cleo – I actually don’t have any expectations of M at the moment. I guess I am just enjoying the attention he gives me. But more than that I don’t really think I am looking for. He would really need to step up for me to put him back into the potential category. But he is fun to talk to and to tease that’s why am still keeping him around. I would have cut him off otherwise after the “incident”

P contacted me saying that he misses me a lot. We have not met each other for more than 1.5 months now because of our schedules. When he sent me that message it was like an ego boost for me. Did not even think that I wanted to go back to dating him.

I have put on quite a bit of weight ladies (10 kgs) and Christmas approaching doesn’t look good. I may go on some kind of diet after the holidays. Haven’t decided what yet.

Sherri
I put on 8lbs over holiday here.. 4ish kg I think so my xmas gift to me was new exercise DVDs. Cheaper than gym membership and no excuse not to work out. I am sore as heck but know they are working. Hoping to have high tight butt by mid January. :)

Just had a quick visit from FWB. We had not seen each other in 1.5 months. He came after his work at 10 pm. Omg that guy is good …. totally have a smile on my face :)

Woo Hoo Sherri!
At least one of us us getting some action :)

Friday, I told my ‘friend’ to take a hike…

Lmao Raven!! really? haha

Well Harley,
I’ll be surprised if I get a message back…

Although, my 71 year old neighbor tried to make a pass at me! He’s a spry old guy!

Yep Mandy, it’s time to clear the cache & bring in some new talent. I need a get ‘er done guy!

Well I am chatting with a very cute guy on Tinder who has the same dog as me… quite an unusual breed… this has made me feel a tiny bit better. Every little helps as they say.

Wayheh. I love you all 2. tree man is going to cut trees so I may have to travel to house tomorrow onwards so I may be off the grid a lot. I’ll be back at some stage though !

glad to hear you being positive and proactive Celeste and Sass.

Sherri,

I’m as good as I can be… Going through a break up but it could always be worse..

I got a new position at work so I haven’t really seen him in about 2 months.. I’m sure they still come but since I’m not working out front, I don’t know when they come in.. I haven’t really gave it a thought to be honest.. It has been too long with the same ol same ol for my interest for him to last… So I honestly hope him and bank lady are doing well… :)