Nothing ever happens

Ok. ..I need help . pof guy sent a photo…I do Not fancy him. sorry to be soo shallow…how do I tell him ????

lesson learned…no more replying to guys without pics !

fair dues to you Sass. enjoy all your dates. I’m finding it sucks so far !

Harley, either say nothing and fade out or tell him that he’s not your type…

I agree with something you said earlier (“I guess you just know when you know”) (when it’s right)… I’m the same, and I don’t bother with anything else. Perhaps a few emails/texts here and there but I don’t go on a date if it doesn’t feel 100% right… that said there’s NOTHING wrong with the opposite (going on lots of dates) (and I love reading y’alls date updates), but it’s just not me…

It is said that men know instantly/very early if they “want” the girl or not, and that girls are more cautious/unsure and believe that their feelings can/will grow… well, in that matter I definitely think and act like a man…

Buttercup, I wish I could send another message, but I can’t, unless you’re a paying member you can only send one wink a week to the same person. If he answers then I can answer him though… To be honest he wasn’t that interesting anyway, I merely sent the message to break my totally passive behavior in there…

Sass, you go girl… on those dates… and then come in here and tell us all about it…

Sherri, I’m glad to hear you’re feeling better…

Are you on zoosk Maria? I found that website quite tiring especially if you are not a paying member. There were so many guys I wanted to message and couldn’t and the guys who messaged me I was not interested in. And then again if the guy messaged me, I think I was allowed only 1 reply and then would have to pay for more replies. I cancelled my account completely as I found it a waste of time.

Hi all, hope you well. I had a god weekend. Just catching up with family and Xmas party quite tame.. danced a lot and have an ache in my shoulder now but it will heal.

Lots of online interest but no one taking my fancy still.

Relaxing today. watching TV.

Ha Cleo… sit tight on those fingers. You will be alright ! Miss each other and the making up will be all the better. don’t go getting all needy on him !

Oh ya.. faceless is a No No from now on. TOO many ugly critters out there !

Oh…. THIS is where the regs hang out to talk!

I”m thinking of trying a little online dating just for fun and to get back into practice. What are your opinions of the sites?

I didn’t date M that long so I”m getting past this fast.

What happened with M? Do you have a thread?

And, I feel so much better he texted me today asking what I was doing, but I don’t feel like hanging out today because I feel fat, so I said a little white lie that I was shopping. My emotions are fauked up.

Cleo.. what’s up with your emotions ?

Steffy was dating M for a while. Now he’s doing a pullback… she’s doing the same.. considering it over but now thinking of contacting him. She has a recent thread… just now.

Hope you don’t mind my short explanation Steffy !

Yep.. just bought a house 2 and half hours from home.. not ideal but will do. Am seeking a job transfer.

STILL hung up on Frank.. but battling on every day to let go.. some days better than others.

Mike still likes my off fb post.. but I ignore.

lots of online interest.. but noone decent.

GREAT to have you back !

Serena my darling, GREAT that you’re back, I’ve missed you LOTS <3<3<3

O has moved to Gothenburg (to work on his album) (5 hours from Stockholm). We talk now and then but are not in any kind of relationship. I’m doing online dating now and find it fun so far… at the moment it’s actually 100% fun and 0% love – no dates yet…

However male attention is never wrong so I’m in the male chat rooms a lot… discussing cars (I’m soo beating the guys at their own game), politics and grammar. My favorite is a 60 something guy who looks like the spitting image of Donald Sutherland and a black bball dude who has a great interest in languages. He started a thread with the title “literacy in America”. It’s only me and him in it and we’re having a very interesting conversation…

Oh, and I got my first “axe murderer” mail yesterday. It’s from a guy with a hidden profile. The ONLY info in it is his income, his height (6’4) and “hair” (bald/shaved)… and his message to me is “I’m interested in you”… seriously… comedy on a high level right there, WHY have I not done this earlier!!?

Huge drama in here lately… I really really think that the only solution is that if someone feels offended then THEY should speak up and confront the person they feel offended by. It’s NOT ANYONE ELSE’S right or business to decide what someone should or should not feel or be offended by.

I had a wonderful weekend girls!!

Kids stayed over on Friday evening. My sister stayed over too. Then on Saturday morning we went and picked up another friend of mine and we all went to see Santa. My work party was having a Children’s Christmas party. So saw Santa, went on a train ride, went to check out a Victorian cottage and a Scottish cottage. It was fun. Then I dropped off the girls at my ex’s and went home to relax till my dance in the evening. Chatted with M for a bit.

The dance was fun but none of my friends could come with me so I went alone and joined a meet up group there. I was catching all my “uncles” to dance with me. Had a weird encounter with a colleague there. I think he is interested in me but I am so not into him. Besides he seems old …. I wonder if he is at least 15+ years older than me. So if he asks me out (idk if he will) I am going to use Lane’s statement that “I have a no work dating policy”.

I did some errands on Sunday morning and then Sunday evening one of my FWNBs came over and fixed my CD player which was not working and then we went for dinner to this place he wanted to try. He said it was his treat so that was great!!

I got a message online from this guy who lives in the US of how he likes my profile and finds me interesting and knows that I don’t do LDR but that he would love to chat with me and get to know me and if I could make an exception for him. It was a very very nicely worded message. I was totally tempted to reply. But then I am not looking for a pen pal and totally not interested in LDRs so whats the point. I deleted that message.

Had another guy write me a message and when I replied he started getting sexual with his talks. I told him that I was not interested and all the best in his search but he was still replying with sexual talk so I blocked him. Don’t need that kind of crap in my life with guys who don’t know how to chat with women respectfully and try to get to know them and not just want to f*** them. Seriously if that is all you are looking for, there are a lot of profiles online of woman looking for only that so set your search criteria to that and may be waste their time instead of mine!!! Bloody A*******

And that’s my rant about online dating with a** 101.

Have a great day ladies!!! :D

Well my dates have been successful so far… NAWT!

Saturday night guy I cancelled because I’d been at a child’s party all day and was going to be too tight a turnaround to get to the date in good time. He wants to rearrange but I think I’ll leave it.

Sunday night guy has ghosted! Really surprised… he’d put a lot of groundwork in with good texting and we’d made a firm arrangement for 8pm at a certain pub. However didn’t hear from him all day sat, and then yesterday I texted him at 5.30 to check we were still on – no reply! He’s taken down his tinder profile (or blocked me) so that’s a hint and a half.

So still got my Italian fave lined up for Tues night. Have a named venue and time and he’s texted me everyday so far. Really hope he doesn’t do the Caspar act too!

It was me who cancelled him – I wasn’t really feeling him (bit pretentiuous) also he attempted a booty call a few days earlier when we’ve never met. Think I’ll leave him. However it’s possible karma that I then got the same treatment in reverse from the next guy!