Online but Not Responding

I don’t expect to hear from him immediately, but communication is important especially since it’s an LDR, so it would have been nice to receive a response to my message if he’s been online.

Hi I’m in an LDR also and just recently visited my SO at his place things did not go as well as I’d hoped instead of all my questions being resolved I now seem to have even more of them
So I’m going through the same thing as you are now that I’m back again and getting more than a bit depressed when he doesn’t respond in a timely manner but I just try to keep in mind that yes he’s got a life a busy one and I’m only part of that life so I try so hard not to stress however it isn’t easy but it is necessary and good for you and I both to quit thinking about the relationships that we’re in and concentrate on other things it makes us more well rounded people and therefore more interesting to our SOS a d it also helps to keep us on an even keel so that we won’t stress out bad for us and bad for the relationship
Now like most i give great advice but just have a hard time taking it—right now for instance my heart is in the pit of my stomach because I haven’t heard from him at a time when I sometimes do but I have to remember he’s very busy at work was yesterday also so he’s bound to be tired
All I can do is message my usual messages and try to keep calm and understanding
Finally I know there are a lot of nay sayers about LDRs but they obviously aren’t aware of the psychiatric studies showing that people get to know one a other more deeply and intensely than in a conventional relationship so yes while there are certainly special challenges involved in this type of a relationship the rewards are just as real as in a regular relationship as are the chances that it will last if you ever want to talk I’ll be around