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Home › Forums › Complicated Situation / Mixed Signals › Online dating. He asked to suggest a place. And sexy time.
I’ve been dabbling in online dating, but I’m quite suspicious of a catfish etc. Anyway, I started talking to a guy last week, according to his profile, he had a legit job, and seemed to have his life in order. So we started texting. We live in similar areas, he asked me out to dinner, and asked where I’d like to go, so I suggested the nice place in town. He agreed. Great. Flash forward a day, he starts saying things like, “well after a dinner at X I expect some dancing on me.” And “I’m going to be dropping $200 so I hope to see your moves.”
I honestly was disgusted by this, and told him, you’re barking up the wrong tree. If you want to go somewhere else, that’s fine, but I don’t appreciate the sexualization of our first freaking date! Lol
Am I wrong to just be done, and not even go on the date?! Or should I just give him a chance to redeem himself..?
Why are you even questioning this?!
Lol great question. I guess I question my own gut more often than I should. Thanks for the reality check :)
You want us to advise you to give him a second chance, so that you can go on the date and “end up” sleeping with him.If you want to have some sexual fun, just admit it. We all have desires, no?
If you were seriously appalled like you should be, this wouldn’t even be a question.
He is fishing for sex right away – lose him fast.
Thanks all. I blocked him.
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