Perfect guy but no sex in six months

Ok, I know this sounds bizarre so let me clarify. I’m a virgin. 25 years old. I have met a guy and for the first time I had my first foreplay and minimal sexual acts. So as you understand I need plenty of time to feel ok with engaging into something more. However, I’m now ready.

So please allow me to share my story. I met this guy six months ago and we clicked. We dated and after the first month he invited at his place. There, we used to have lots of foreplay but he never pushed me about sex and he always discussed with me if I was familiar with these acts. I really appreciated it. At one point I asked him for an STI testing, just for me to make sure. He told me he went, but the results were pretty late. Then he told me that he got the results and that he was perfectly healthy. At that point, I couldn’t go to his place because his brother was there too. He stayed for one month and I and my boyfriend would go out for walks. We made out in my car but only when I asked him to. I started finding it strange, somehow felt that I wasn’t appealing to him. Fast forward to the present moment, his brother has left. So, he told me that I could go to his place and finally we can have sex (I want to). However,once I told him that I could come, he started some -in my opinion- silly excuses. One time, he wanted to stay in his own family house with his mom because he was scared of leaving her on her own since his father was away. Now, for 2 weeks, his mother is cleaning that other house we used and I can’t go. Not to mention that I haven’t yet seen the test results he had promised me.

Of course these sound like a bit red flag. However, a week ago and six to seven months so far into the relationship he told the L word. He actually made a whole confession and it was a great moment in our relationship.

I talked to him about my concerns and he told me that he wants to have sex with me like crazy, it’s just but timimg with his brother and now his mom. He announced that I would go to his place quite soon.

On all other things he is the perfect boyfriend. He surprises me, he compliments me all the time, he listens to my problems and gives great advice. He even said that he is very positive about our relationship and he thinks that we have a long future together.

I told him I love him too. And I do. There are days I feel blessed for having found such a considerate guy, but his sudden decision to cut on the physical intimacy is troubling me. I’m aftaid that all this is a bubble and that he might be lying to me the whole time. If he does though, then he is a perfect actor. My gut sometimes tells me to be patient and others to start thinking about ending things. I don’t know. What do you think???