Perplexed

Hi there ! So I don’t really know if it’s only lust or love I’ve for her. It’s my colleague. I definitely crushed on her and she did reject me. But I never stop chasing her even tho I did accept the rejection. This girl goes to the night clubs with one diff guy every night, kisses him and gets a hickey and all except sex ( she a Baptist ). I definitely have lust on her but on the other hand do care for her a lot. That care is never reciprocated tho. Infact she is so close with my best friend and I guess she has feelings for him. She always spends time with him and tells all her hook up stories with him openly. A lot of times she seduces him too. He tell me everything. She’s isn’t a type of girl a man would get into a relationship with becuz she cheated on her bf many times. Now she broke up with him in fear of getting caught cheating. My best frnd tell me not to have any expectations on her even of lust. Cuz I absolutely dont stand a chance to hook up cuz she only does it with rich and handsome guys.

I want to get rid of her by hooking up with her one time. I don’t know what to do. She never respected me either. She only remembers me when she needs me and tries to spend time with me only in the absence of my best friend which hurts.

Would be really thankful for you’re suggestions to navigate this painful situation.