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Shoshannah.
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BSK
A guy that ghosted me has recently matched again with me on the same app we first met? Is he trying to mess with my head yet again!
Penny
I don’t think he is trying to mess with your head. Alot of that stuff is automatic so it just matched you again.
BSK
Hi Penny!
Thank you for your fast response but I don’t think it’s automatic on Tinder they would of had to swipe right on you and vice versa to make it a match :)
Kim Stacey
iv had guys come CRAWLLLLLLLING back who have ghosted me and told me I can PUNISH them for ghosting me if i give them a second chance. guys are fkking stupid. theres no way in hell i’d ever give a guy a second chance after being ghosted in the first place. like give me a break. you ruined it buddy. you ruined it BIG TIME. they are swiping right because they realized they fkked it up. just ignore them like the plague. dumb!!!
Penny
Ahh, I have never used Tinder so I didn’t know. But don’t worry about it. He isn’t worth your time.
Raven
Un-match, delete, block & move forward…
Lane
These guys see hundreds of faces online and can’t keep it straight! Ignore and move on as they are like kids in a candy store–=an’t focus on one today sadly!!!
Ss
I’ve swiped right on a past match/fling out of pure curiosity to see if they did … they always have! I have no explanation for why I’ve done that really aside from wondering if they did too … it means nothing!
BSK
Thank you for all your replies lovelies!
He messaged me on the app with just a full stop! Ffs why are some men like this please .. so annoying
Shoshannah
Wow, first reconnects, then sends a full stop. I know the type. All I can say, there are idiots everywhere. Ignore! Be grateful it didn’t work out with him.
Shoshannah
Oh, and maybe read up on the so-called hoovering technique that ghosters often use. Believe me, ignoring is the only way, he will get bored eventually.
BSK
Guys what’s the hoovering technique?
Shoshannah
It’s when a ghoster is trying to get your attention again, sometimes it means trying to get back to your life, sometimes smaller things (like sending a full stop), a narcissistic technique. It doesn’t mean that he wants to be back together, sometimes they are just checking if they can get any reaction from you. You can google it, but it’s not worth your time, to be honest.
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