Received Gifts. Should I break NC?

i agree with Maddie. he is trying to woo you back. but what does this really mean? is he ready to have you back in his life despite his parents reservations against you? is he ready to go against their wishes to be back with you?

I agree Peggy. I thanked him for the gifts last night and didn’t say anything more to which he responded he hoped I liked it. But I do want to see him create some boundaries with his family. I just don’t know if I should go back into silence and let him miss me enough like maybe another two or three weeks to where he’ll start seeing he needs to take action. But I’ve also heard of some partners losing interest because out of sight, out of mind. Abs he already messaged me before that he had wanted to work on things. But now he’s telling my best friend that he’s feeling hopeless. I know I wouldn’t be able to see his actions unless I see him and try again. But I don’t want it to be where he only tries for a bit and then stop. I also don’t want to lose my chance but then again a person doesn’t just forget about you so easily if they truly love you. He had a guitar of mine that I hand built that he says it always reminds him of me and it makes him sad when he sees or plays it, but he worships that guitar actually. Music is our passion. So I don’t think I’ll be easily forgotten. I’m just lost and confused.

When someone tries to come back after they’ve caused a break up, it’s usually because something went wrong with something else they were trying to get with. You’re a consolation prize. Stay in NC and move on.