Rejected MM in my office

Going to be harsh here so you get it.

Whoa! Big leap from flirting to scowling to finding you and keying your car. He could find you because he works in IT? Anyone can find anyone these days, not hard unless you have no social media presence.

Firstly, it sounds like you were fine flirting with him when until you found out he was married??? Yeah, how about not doing that at work? Or asking immediately the status of people at work. He thinks he gods gift to women? What do you think about you because you sound like a bratty princess?

Then you comment on how fat he is and eats at his desk. Judgy much? He looks like a sore loser? How do you know that? Other than your opinion? Maybe he didn’t lose anything at all.

Just ignore him. If he actually does something that is not a figment of your imagination, tell him once to stop and then go to hr if he proceeds at anything other than using his eyeballs.

And stop flirting at work.

Based on your other posts that the ANM Staff pointed out, how can you be so sure it’s THIS guy that keyed your car? Why not one of the others obsessed/preoccupied with you? (I’m basing this off your group of posts.)

You should definitely go to HR if you feel you are being harassed at this point. You should also call the police and file a report about the keying of your car. It’s important to start a paper trail for your own protection if anything escalates.

Then you might want to take a break and step back from playing these games with men as it seems like things aren’t working out in your favor. I’m not sure what your endgame is other than getting attention. Consider finding something a little more substantial or meaningful to do with your time, like a hobby that doesn’t involve manipulating others.