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Confused
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. We’re in our early twenties and live with our parents while we save up money to move out. Buying houses where we live is really expensive.
We’ve had our ups and downs but we’ve worked through it all. He’s told me he wants to move out with me and we’re planning to move in another year.
Recently we came back from a short trip which was amazing. We had an amazing time together.
Since then there’s been a bit of a dry spell. It’s like we’re both talking to walls. I bought it up today and he agreed that we haven’t had much to talk about recently.
He’s busy with studying for a qualification and work and I’ve been trying to keep myself busy too but I can’t shake the feeling that we’ll drift apart. Especially since our conversations have been going around in circles.
ConfusedAm I just overthinking or is there something wrong?
GirlnextdoorKeep yourself busy with your work and observe him. Only time can tell what is really happening.
NewbieI never run out if things to talk about with my best friends and my man and neither do they. But with guys you cant talk all day. They really tune you out when the are preoccupied. So if your guy is busy then focus on quality time and not quantity time. And do something besides talking. If you really have to keep yourself busy, you should ask yourself if you are not too dependant on your bf. You have your own friends, school, work, hobbies?
SensyPerhaps allow a little space between you to spice it up and give things a little mystery.
Better off singleYou’re spending way too much time together.
Better off singleWhat’s gonna happen when you move in together?
Complacency.
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