retrospective jealousy

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September 11, 2023 at 3:38 am #942565 Reply

Sara

hi!

i wanted some advice on how to stop being retrospectively jealous. I have been with my bf now for over a year and from the beginning I was asking him questions about his past relationships (most were long distance) as sometimes you can get the idea about a person knowing their past. But it got to the point that I started overthinking, analyzing , thinking he might still love that person and would happily get back with her, that he was doing more for her than he is doing for me, all those things and it is making me sad.
He doesn’t talk about his exes , only when I ask him.

September 11, 2023 at 6:21 am #942573 Reply

Raven

Why are you looking for reasons to be unhappy?

September 11, 2023 at 12:51 pm #942583 Reply

Rox

Hi Sara,

Remember he is dating you and he is not going out with his ex.

Why compare? You have some insecurities in your self. Talk about them. What are you worried about? Live in the present. Do you want to go out with one of your exes? You need to like yourself as much as he does.
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