Seen a message on his phone

Funny he got angry saying he wont explain himself like a child. When that’s actually what children do. Grown ups are transparent, especially in a committed relationship.

Shame he doesn’t know that him laying his cards out on the table actually might increase the chances (not guarantee ofc) you might brush it off, even if his boundaries with that girl weren’t strictly platonic. Sh** happens.

You made the right call. Consider it a blessing in disguise that you’re seeing this side of his before you spent even longer together. People like this are the most cowardly/insecure of types- who would let a house burn down than admit they did anything wrong. You can only imagine what it would be like building a future with such a person.