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Janice
Hi everyone! I had a question. I have been online dating and talk to a few men. They all ask me to send them pics. Nothing naked, they just ask if I have any more pics to send. It makes me feel a little uncomfortable sending a bunch of my pics. Especially since I talk to more than one man. What is a good thing to say when they ask for more pics? I hate to be rude, but I also don’t want to send them.
Thanks for your input.
saritasay you dont have lastest ones and will get them done and send eventually. Go for a personal meeting instead. On line dating sites are full of jerks who cant get women otherwise
Eric CharlesKeymasterHow many pics do you have on your online profile?
I would have a whole bunch up there… at least 6-8… choose great pics…
You can say it’s superficial, but frankly if they’re going to reject you based on looks, better they do it before you’re even in touch…
If the issue isn’t having too few pics for them to get a sense of you, then another possibility is that they don’t have a sense of your body… if there’s 6 pics of a girl with a gorgeous face but no clear shot of her body, a lot of guys are going to wonder what your body looks like… and since it’s the internet and they figure there’s nothing to lose, most guys will ask for more pics… best to just have a good, flattering shot of your figure and then you avoid that whole dance…
Again, it’s superficial, but… what I’m telling you will eliminate the problem and weed out the wrong guys automatically.
Finally… if you do have a bunch of pics and at least a few realistically show your body, then the only other reason they’d want a pic is for something to get off too… in which case I imagine you’re not interested in indulging that…
So there you go…
SanniGreat, straight forward, to the point adive! :)
JaniceThanks, Eric! I have about 4 pics (face and body). I will take your advice and add a few more. All my pics are appropriate and recent. Obviously, I am much more fantastic in person, though! lol
Ugh, sometimes it feels like online dating is just like window shopping! ; )
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