Sex after third date now he is distant

Truth is some men are weirdos and they enjoy playing the ever so seductive hot and cold game. I’ve learnt that the best thing to do is to reflect their behaviour. If he’s pulling back, pull back too, I’f he’s showing interest show interest too. You had 3 dates from what I hear, 3 dates is standard for men to start expecting sex. Seriously they never work for it nowadays!!! Anyway, don’t over analyse what you did, it’s perfectly healthy for you to make your own choices and feel empowered by them. If he’s acting off since you’ve slept together then don’t read into it but write him off. Ask yourself what exactly you want from a relationship and whether or not he is capable of providing it?? It’s not all the mans choice! And when he does decide to come back or step up, show him that there are consequences to his behaviour! They will treAt you how you allow them to!