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Emily
Ladies,
There are some great advice-givers on this forum. Thought it would be fun and interesting to see everyone’s best dating/relationship advice in one place. If you’d like to share, I’d love to read it :)To get us started – mine is to be content and balanced on your own, rather than being miserable and thinking a man will fix you.
Lesley
1) Give the men space to process their emotions, don’t chase after them. If he is withdrawing, let them. If they really made an exit in the relationship (be it committed or uncommitted), you have dodged a bullet. If they really like you, they will come back (and its up to you whether you accept him, depending on the circumstances). Experiences told me if you come too close when they need room, it never ends well.
2) Don’t read into too much from text messages Girls. E-tethering is not a relationship. If a guy only connects in virtual means, big red flag. Sweet texts is costless.
3) Don’t let your mind fixates on dating life and your date/bf. Understand life is more than just love relationship, family and friendship are equally important (echoing to Emily’s advice).
4) You are entitled to date other men if you are not in an exclusive / committed relationship. Period.
Elvira
1. Be comfortable in your own skin – get to know what you want in life and relationships.
2. An open or casual relationship is not wrong if that is what you want. Take time to get to know someone. Sex is not evil as long as you know this is what you want and the person is providing the same pleasure and satisfaction you deserve. Do not have sex to win them have sex to enjoy it.
3. Learn to live life to the fullest by treating yourself to all that makes you a confident woman, pampering yourself and getting to know your own body and pleasures.
4. Realize that a partner is an addition to your already fabulous life.
5. It is your choice to choose a partner not a partner choosing you.
6. First dates are not meant to plan/judge an entire future, it is simply showing your fabulous self, demonstrating your fun, open and flirtatious side.
7. Develop loving relationships with everyone in your life…understand love comes in many forms.
8. Learn how to flirt with no goal (its simply your sexy, loving side) be a seductive goddess.I think the most important thing is being comfortable with your own skin, confident in yourself and knowing that you have the power as a strong individual to choose who is in and isn’t your life.
Lane
1. Above all have fun! Treat them like any stranger you meet, male or female and vet them accordingly. If they don’t call or text you back delete them from your phone pronto even if you really like them. Its OK, there are plenty of men in the sea you have yet to meet!
2. Don’t date just to get into a relationship or your guy picker could become damaged and latch onto bad boys who won’t treat you right. Best to date when you’re perfectly OK being single and on your own because you have a great life with so much to do and explore! If a man wants to join you, great but always be leery of the lemons, fakers and time wasters which is why you need to keep your wits about you—BELIEVE THE NEGATIVES!
3. Don’t get so darn “serious.” Serious is a dour word which means “not fun.” Keep it light, fun, interesting and challenging. Don’t overshare! Give a man little bits of info. without giving your feelings away—make him work for and earn them! Only when HE spills the beans is it safe for you to do so for majority of guy’s, especially the Alpha’s. It’s probably safe to spill it first to a weak Beta because you will have to run the show (wear the pants) in that relationship anyway lol.
4. Lastly, its the man’s job to call, plan dates and keep you interested enough to keep seeing him! If he’s not doing any of this, then you disengage and keep meeting and dating others until you are IN a relationship with a good guy. Keep it simple! Don’t analyze, try to pick his brain, wonder where its heading or talk about ‘feelings.’ Trust me, a man will tell and show you how he feels when he feels it. When he does, he will be the one to try to analyze you and pick your brain when they are unsure if you have the same feelings for them haha. Men really are pretty simple, its the woman who makes dating too darned complicated.
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