Should I add him to my Facebook friends?

No. font add him fb is evil…you end up stalking each other. . wondering why he is ‘liking other posts. . who are his new friends etc etc etc. leave well alone.

Thank you that makes sense. I trust him but I see all my friends coupled up and posting tons of photos of being happy and doing stuff.
I can only check out his friends… He befriended two sexy girls – he met on a night out last week….
It just makes me wonder why not me?
Should I bring it up and ask or send it without asking or just ignore it.
As you said, life is better without it?

Thanks
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If him befriending sexy girls is already giving you this weird feelings, imagine what more it can do when you’re finally on each other’s list.

I’d say just ignore it. And I suggest staying away from on his FB either, it’ll just create unecessary worries like what you’re having now.

Just because everyone else is posting couple pics doesn’t mean you need to do the same. Focus on your relationship with him in person, how he puts in effort, takes you out on dates, and make you happy–that’s the basis of a good relationship. Forget the virtual world and the people in it, they’re just that–virtual. What’s important is he calls you his girlfriend and he always makes you feel like one.

You can simply friend him with no relationship status. But only if you can never look at his page ;-)….

I won’t be able not to look at his page!
Perhaps should do it when an opportunity rises up?

Hi IZ,

Are you IN a relationship? Are you his GF? Does he say he loves you?

If your officially BF/GF then I think its fine to FB, but if not then I would suggest finding a guy who does and would be super happy to share your relationship status and post all the great memories you’re creating together—that’s a sign of a guy “in love.”

Lz,

You have bigger problems then facebook – which is a man who has already told you he cannot give you what you want should be dumped. When a man tells you that, you should believe him.

Why are you messing around with him????

Oh IZ, why are you wasting your time with this man? I get there are periods in our lives where we don’t want a relationship, but if you do and this guy doesn’t then how does that benefit you? You are just an FWB, not an official couple so stop trying to ACT like a GF when you clearly are not. All exclusive means to him is that he’s locked your VG down but trust me on this, when he crosses the path of the woman he wants to lock down entirely, you will be tossed to side like yesterdays trash!

I am intentionally being harsh with you because so many woman today ALLOW it because they think this is all they deserve! You do NOT deserve this, you deserve to be with a man who treats you like A QUEEN (prize). Please work on building up your self-esteem, respect, worth, value and confidence and only CHOOSE a man who loves, adores and cherishes you for the awesome woman you are! :-)

Thanks all.