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Jay.
Cathleen
Yeah sure stay “friends” – he’ll make a great frenemy.
Marhie
Thank you. I read it all carefully and I made that call to see a therapist. I was feeling guilty to cut him off after he told me he he had gone for a prostate biopsy. And why shoukd I feel guilty? He is not having mercy on me and still treating me like worse than dog crap.
I am not even calling him to say I am cutting off.
I am very mad at myself for not standing up for myself and not setting boundaries. You ladies are better than therapists and the gentlemans too that posted here.
Thank you
Margie
He sure is a sweet talker. I vanished this weekend. He called. I did not pick up. He texted I did not reply.
He than left messages saying he is worried about me. I believe because I always picked up his calls and jumped up and down every time he reached me, he is now saying he cares and is concerned.
Bilieve me, he is only concerned about loosing his booty call. He had a prostate biopsy last week. He is contacting more since he found out his psa was high.
Still, he is just a liar that changed his matiral status to get help to fix his issues at home. I wonder why women like me are so stupid and believe on the stories of man like him.
I am blocking his #. The less I hear his voice the easier it will be.
Your comments this past days really helped me.
Jay
Oh Margie your situation sounds so much like mine! My guy is the charmer as well. For 3 years I played the FWB game. The weekly will he or won’t he text me. Seemingly this week he let me go. Just like that. It’s the most painful experience ever.
Very proud of you for disappearing yourself. They will run back, and yes they do get nervous you are walking away too. But it is only to protect their need, not because they feel more for you. I had to learn this over and over. Alas, I don’t think my guy will be back at all this time. And I have no real answers. As of a week ago, everything was fine.
Look up the no contact rule and see if that can help you here. I’d love to chat more with you and compare stories, and be each other’s support!
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