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Melissa
I have been talking to this buy recently and it started off great. We would laugh, flirt, he would say sweet things to me like i was so pretty, adorable, and that we had a connection and he has no felt this with any other girl since he last gf enough to date.
These past few days he has been in contact, but all the cute comments have gone, and he can seem a little snarky, although he does initiate contact. He is still saying about getting together (tomorrow), but it just doesn’t seem like it was before when he was excited to hang out and said he couldn’t wait to see me. I wouldn’t be surprised if he flakes on tomorrow at some point.
We will be talking in conversation and then he will randomly just stop replying, so i don’t send anymore….then he might come back the next day and start a new convo, but it kind of bothers me how he just disappears like that. When we first started talking he would say if he was going to bed or whatever.
So my question is should i just tell him i can’t make tomorrow if he does mention it again and just forget this guy? I liked how we were being before, but his behavior changing is starting to make me wonder if he has some kind of game plan.
Ashleyif your gut feeling is that he’s bad news, then cancel & forget him. he shouldn’t be playing games right before he has plans to see you. it would make me disinterested too
MelissaI wouldn’t say playing games, but it just makes me a little wary of why he is acting differently and obviously i don’t want to ask.
Ashleythe first paragraph you said.. usually guys say all that sweet stuff just to hook you & then show their “real self” that’s probably what he’s doing.. it’s up to you but if it bothers you that much then don’t see him
AliThe all day texting and sweet texts are fun at the beginning, but eventually a guy has work and you know a life. Id stop relying on texting as an indictation of his feelings and instead see how he acts in person. Does he make plans and keep them? Is he sweet and affectionate when you’re together in real life? My boyfriend is bad at texting. But he calls me on the days we don’t see each other. And is great in person. As soon as you stop obsessing over texts, the happier you’ll be
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