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Tallspicy.
Mélanie
Me and my ex broke up some weeks ago He ended it but in the text he said we should go on a break and be friends for now.I then reacted by calling him we spoke things through said a couple of things I shouldn’t (not extreme tho)but later we resolved the issue and we became cool.Mind you we had been talking for three months then started dating for a month.The reason he ended it was because he hardly saw each other because of my protective parents,and also because he felt I said alot of things I didn’t end up doing, and felt I was was just saying those things to keep him excited.We The day after we broke up I reached out to him we spoke for a bit I started no contact for 3days,but had to break it to tell him happy birthday I told him I missed him and he said he missed me too.Its been 7days of no contact he hasn’t watched my story but my question is that is there a chance of us getting back together and does he still care about me and should I keep contracting him.If not how do I move on I don’t go out and he was my only friend
Tallspicy
This man is not an ex. Talking for 3 months and going on a few dates does not a relationship make. You move on by getting therapy to understand why you are so attached to a man never your boyfriend and why you oversexualized an online interaction to keep him interested. And a birthday is never a reason to break no contact.
Tallspicy
There is no chance to get back together because you never were together, he was not your friend and most likely he does not care enough to try to get back in touch and if he does it is for an ego stroke. Please get some help…. your life is not in order if this was your only friend.
Tallspicy
I am sorry to be so harsh…. please focus on your own life before you try to date.
Emily
No, you shouldn’t contact him. He’s your ex. Unless you have children, there is no reason for you to interact. Move forward.
Raven
I’m more concerned about your not having any friends…
Mélanie
He was my boyfriend we dated for 2months
Tallspicy
You said you spoke for 3 months (not dating) and dated for 1 month. Did he say you were exclusive and not talking or seeing others? But no matter what, when someone breaks up with you, it is best to never contact them again. They know how to find you. And if you do, it is once with an acknowledgment it is over and wish them the best.
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