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redcurleysue.
Chicaa
I always have anxiety about the paying thing on dates. I don’t mind paying but that awkwardness when the bill comes makes me cringe. I been dating this girl for about a month a half. We’re doing a double date with one of my friends over the weekend and don’t know if I should pay for our part of the dinner. He’s paid for date #1 and #2. I planned to get us some wine for the outing including whatever he likes to drink FYI just in case that effects your answer. We are doing a second part of the date after dinner so if he paid for dinner I’d pay for the second part. I’ve kinda already figured everything out in my head but don’t know if I should offer to pay. What do you guys think?
Raven
I’m confused as all get out…
Who is the ‘he’ you’re referring to?
Chicaa
Lol typo, I meant I’ve been dating this guy not girl.
Dangerouse
Perhaps discuss it with your date. Not by text, of course.
redcurleysue
Who asked for the date pays. They are the host. It is simple.
Karen
I don’t think he would feel manly letting you pay while you’re with other people. I’d wait and spend money on him after the double date, when it’s just you two.
Chicaa
@redcurleysue Well we had plans already which he asked for then i suggested we turn it into a double date with my friend. Thats why its tricky.
@Karen I thought the same thing thanks
redcurleysue
Really do not overthink this. For a double date one couple pays for their half and the other couple pays for their half. In your case this guy asked you out – it turned double but he was still your host. If you want to even things out then pay for something else or an evening you host. If you make less than a man you treat him out to things you can afford as often as you can afford. If you host you pay and if he hosts he pays. This keeps it simple and fair.
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